ukfan4life14 Posted September 8, 2004 Posted September 8, 2004 Me and my girlfriend of four year got engaged on July 23, but then we broke up on August 18. I broke up with her not really wanting to but just out of anger because she is such a busy person and would not spend any time with me. But I want to be back with her and now she will not take me back. This has been a very hard time for me I can not get over her. It is very hard considering we live about 30 seconds from each other. She dose not even want to talk or see me. I love this girl more than anything in this world and I would do anything to be with her. I can not seem to leave her alone I want to see her and try to talk to her and work things out. We have had problems in the past because I am a very depressed person, but I have took all the necessary steps to make everything better I have entered counciling to get better. And I am getting better but there is a hole in my life without her in it. It is hard to see the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with not want to even talk to me. She says that she still loves me and has feelings for me, and that if we are meant to be together then we will be. But I am very impatient person and I feel that everything that I am doing to be better is just a waste if she is not in my life. I am also scared to because if I saw her with another guy I would go crazy.
hurtingandconfused Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 I know you are hurting but you cannot show her. Girls dislike when men get weak. Do not contact her anymore. Do not push her further away. There is NOTHING you can do to make her go back to you. NOTHING. So do not even try. Remember what does kill you only makes you stronger. Hang in there, because only time will tell.
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