RiceaRoni Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Dreams are so strange to me. It is like an alternate reality where we see our fears and the things we wish to happen. Recently I have been having strange dreams all involving my ex bf. I know you should never really look into dreams like these because they're just part of your subconscious trying to help you, but I still think they're pretty interesting. Dream 1: I had this dream about a month ago and I found it the strangest. I'm on some sort of island with just dirt/sand, and in front of me are multiple doors the size of buildings. Each door is a different color/design. Next to me is my ex bf talking with his friends. They were retry far away just chilling and talking. Anyway I proceed to go through all these doors, going from one to the next and each time I step out of one I still see my ex with his friends talking. Inside of each door I don't really remember what happened, but each door held different scenarios. Towards the end of the dream I'm back on the island and I walk to my ex and his group of friends. I think I was invisiable to them, and the only words I heard were from my ex telling his brother to never break up with someone, or someone you love because it is a terrible feeling, and the dream ended. I'll post my second dream up soon haha
83_Dan Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Hmmm very interesting. I can remember having dreamt about my ex several times since our break-up but I can't remember many details. In one dream she kind of let me know again that she didn't feel we were working together so I didn't wake up very happily... The thing is that I'd rather not remember dreaming about her at all. Cause if it's a bad dream you feel bad, and if it's a happy one you feel bad too because of the disappointment when waking up. It's a lose-lose situation for me
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 Hmmm very interesting. I can remember having dreamt about my ex several times since our break-up but I can't remember many details. In one dream she kind of let me know again that she didn't feel we were working together so I didn't wake up very happily... The thing is that I'd rather not remember dreaming about her at all. Cause if it's a bad dream you feel bad, and if it's a happy one you feel bad too because of the disappointment when waking up. It's a lose-lose situation for me Man :/ that stinks. I haven't had any dreams like that... Most of my dreams consisted of my and I talking things out And most if dreams were of him telling his friends that it's terrible breaking up with someone you love. In some dreams he would just stare at me. With that guilty look. It made me feel sad for some reason. Like he knew he messed up, but he wouldn't come back.
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 The most recent dream I had last night was sad.. It was a really long dream, but what I remembered was I was with one of my best guy friends. We were just hanging out and talking and all of a sudden my phone starts ringing and I look. It was my ex wanting to FaceTime me...I didn't answer it though and after the call stopped my friend looked at me and said dont answer it Shannon and don't call him back. I began crying and my friend just hugged me... Then the dream went on I think, but I don't remember
McDonald Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Last night I had a dream I was having s*x with another girl other than my ex. This is after 3 nights of constant dreams of my ex. Pretty strange
denxnis Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 (edited) Last night I had a dream I was having s*x with another girl other than my ex. This is after 3 nights of constant dreams of my ex. Pretty strange You just got dream ass, congratz bro. @RiceARoniSanFranciscoTreat It's totally normal, I had some crazy dreams myself. For the most part you will continue to have them just less and less frequently from what I've experienced. You miss your ex therefor you dream about him/her. Edited March 16, 2013 by denxnis
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 You just got dream ass, congratz bro. @RiceARoniSanFranciscoTreat It's totally normal, I had some crazy dreams myself. For the most part you will continue to have them just less and less frequently from what I've experienced. You miss your ex therefor you dream about him/her. Lol yeah congratz I guess MD xD And I actually haven't been dreaming of him frequently until recently. And they all end the same. Him realizing and telling at least someone how terrible he felt and feels.
McDonald Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 haha im just saying it was the first time i was thinking of another girl... other than my ex. which means that she is slowly becoming the past for me
iKING Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 Your dreams are trippy, like acid status. Dreams always fascinated me, one of the great mysteries of life. An alternate reality of sorts. I've had dreams where I knew it was a dream and could control and manipulate everything within the dream. It was like having super powers in real life. Mind-boggling. Also in my dreams I can usually fly and breathe underwater, so that's an interesting experience to say the least. Dreams about exes are pretty normal for most people, I still have occasional dreams about my most recent ex, never any further back though. It's the subconscious working through an issue or playing an event perceived to be desirable/undesirable as a result of a state of mind prior to falling asleep. 1
na49 Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 I don't know about anyone else, but the mornings I wake up after dreaming about my ex always suck. I hate it because I try falling back asleep and I do. but then I have another dream about her. GET OUT OF MY HEAD!!! 1
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 I don't know about anyone else, but the mornings I wake up after dreaming about my ex always suck. I hate it because I try falling back asleep and I do. but then I have another dream about her. GET OUT OF MY HEAD!!! same thing happens to me I don't know why all the dreams I have of him are of us working and talking things out or of him regretting the BU...all of them are. And in the dreams i'm always in a weird place or a place the both of us know and have been around. However there was one dream where I went into some sort of changing room and all his stuff was scattered around. like everything from money to his personal belongings...and also there were stuff from his new gf like cute cards and pictures...that was the only dream where it involved her. And they were both no where to be seen. other than that its just been him and I..
iKING Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 same thing happens to me I don't know why all the dreams I have of him are of us working and talking things out or of him regretting the BU...all of them are. And in the dreams i'm always in a weird place or a place the both of us know and have been around. However there was one dream where I went into some sort of changing room and all his stuff was scattered around. like everything from money to his personal belongings...and also there were stuff from his new gf like cute cards and pictures...that was the only dream where it involved her. And they were both no where to be seen. other than that its just been him and I.. You're seeing what your subconscious desires and what It's afraid of, It's almost a coping mechanism. It will continue to happen until you've fully resolved the issue and moved on. Nothing to worry about really, happens to the best of us. With time it'll pass, but I know it sucks to wake up in a poor frame of mind due to jet-lag from a less then pleasurable dream state. Keep your chin up miss, you'll be alright, promise. It sounds as though you have a very promising life to look forward to and many loves yet to come. 1
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 You're seeing what your subconscious desires and what It's afraid of, It's almost a coping mechanism. It will continue to happen until you've fully resolved the issue and moved on. Nothing to worry about really, happens to the best of us. With time it'll pass, but I know it sucks to wake up in a poor frame of mind due to jet-lag from a less then pleasurable dream state. Keep your chin up miss, you'll be alright, promise. It sounds as though you have a very promising life to look forward to and many loves yet to come. I know that dreams are all about subconscious and your mind figuring out things, but what about Deja Vu? like I have had dreams and then end up doing something days later that I felt like I had a dream of or did.. example: ex leaving me for another girl lol.
iKING Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 I know that dreams are all about subconscious and your mind figuring out things, but what about Deja Vu? like I have had dreams and then end up doing something days later that I felt like I had a dream of or did.. example: ex leaving me for another girl lol. Deja vu is even more illusive. Never quite figured that one out. The ex leaving you for another girl could've been a fear manifesting itself, as an anticipation of the worst. There's still much to be discovered about dreams which makes them all the more interesting, but what little science does know about them has found that a good chunk of the time It's subconscious manifestations of conscious rationalizations. Hopes, fears, desires, preparation, anticipation. Dreams are one of the great mysteries of life. 1
Lonely Guy 09 Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 The girl I love(who has a bf) told me a few days back that she had a dream about me... In the dream,I was kissing her,and she didnt stop me.She kissed me too.Then she woke up.Thats what she tells me. What the heck does that even mean?FFS you have a bf why do you watch this kind of dreams about me and then say you have no feelings for me?Bloody hell!!
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 The girl I love(who has a bf) told me a few days back that she had a dream about me... In the dream,I was kissing her,and she didnt stop me.She kissed me too.Then she woke up.Thats what she tells me. What the heck does that even mean?FFS you have a bf why do you watch this kind of dreams about me and then say you have no feelings for me?Bloody hell!! It's most likely her subconscious thinking things through.
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 I had another dream last night/this morning about him. I forgot what was going on...I think we were on a team or part of a group And I guess we were taking a break when he pulled me onto his lap and tried to kiss me and I stopped him and said no. He looked at me and still kept me there on his lap, but looked away and said alright. I think I'm trying to get over him? Lol
Love4Pain Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 I've had a couple dreams within the past month about my ex, but for the life of me I can't remember what happened in them. They were probably me trying to talk to/ see him or wanting to be with him. Eh, I can't remember lol. Honesly, my dreams are always weird, crazy, scary, over all messed up dreams so having more "normalish" dreams where I'm probably trying to figure out what happened with my ex is odd to me. Also, these are weird dreams to me because I used to have dreams of another bf where in the dream he was always cheating on me, but in reality he never did anything like that. And here I'm trying to fix things in my dreams with my ex who did in fact cheat on me..... I agree that it sounds like your dreams are manifestations of your desire to get answers to your BU or try to deal with what happened. 1
Lonely Guy 09 Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 It's most likely her subconscious thinking things through. So?What does that mean?Does that mean she likes me?Please DO Tell!!!
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 I've had a couple dreams within the past month about my ex, but for the life of me I can't remember what happened in them. They were probably me trying to talk to/ see him or wanting to be with him. Eh, I can't remember lol. Honesly, my dreams are always weird, crazy, scary, over all messed up dreams so having more "normalish" dreams where I'm probably trying to figure out what happened with my ex is odd to me. Also, these are weird dreams to me because I used to have dreams of another bf where in the dream he was always cheating on me, but in reality he never did anything like that. And here I'm trying to fix things in my dreams with my ex who did in fact cheat on me..... I agree that it sounds like your dreams are manifestations of your desire to get answers to your BU or try to deal with what happened. I mean like you. I also have the craziest dreams that are out of this world and randomly my ex seems to appear in them and then we randomly try to talk or work things out lol Example: the dream from last night that I had (my previous post) before and after my ex did all that I think I was helping to save the world with some friends and there was a white tiger accompanying us on our journey through this crystallized waste land lol I know very strange, and somehow my mind seems to fit my ex somewhere in the middle of all of that xD Dreams are a strange thing. 1
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 So?What does that mean?Does that mean she likes me?Please DO Tell!!! Unfortunately we may not know :/ we both don't and can't think like her or be in her mind at all. She dreams and thinks of you, so it may be a good thing that you're on her mind, but depending on what she thinks about you being on her mind. I can't tell if it means she still likes you or not. It's all up to her thinking. I guess it's a good thing that she thinks of you though I have a friend who once told me that her ex bf texted her one day telling her that he had a dream about them getting intimate. She said she was kinda creeped out when he told her, and the thing was he did still love her. So who knows? Lol she may still like you, she may just be thinking of you subconsciously. But don't stress over it. If she still likes you I'm sure she'd let you know
Love4Pain Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 Hah, well mine are a little different. My dreams are all crazy like the one I had where I was fighting evil with magic powers. Those are my normal type of dreams, and then one night i'll have a "regular" dream where I'm talking to my ex trying to figure out what happened, or try to fix it or trying to get my dream sex on with him -_-. Then I go back to dreaming about something else crazy and random =P So my ex dreams are separate from my crazy dreams lol 1
Love4Pain Posted March 18, 2013 Posted March 18, 2013 I had another dream of my ex this morning! Oh gosh I hope I don't keep dreaming about him. Basically it was him and I on the phone, and I told him exactly how I felt about him breaking up with me and why I wouldn't have, and how I accepted the good and bad with him blah blah. It ended with him making an excuse about me getting a UK phone, lol. I guess it would have lasted longer but I woke up at the phone part. Ugh.
coralie Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Very strange, but I had a dream not about this current ex, but the ex I was with two guys before this current one. It was so vivid. I don't think about him much anymore so I'm not sure what that's all about, but I'll thank my subconscious mind for featuring that other ex in my dream instead of the current one that would make me wake up in pain instead. 1
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 19, 2013 Author Posted March 19, 2013 Very strange, but I had a dream not about this current ex, but the ex I was with two guys before this current one. It was so vivid. I don't think about him much anymore so I'm not sure what that's all about, but I'll thank my subconscious mind for featuring that other ex in my dream instead of the current one that would make me wake up in pain instead. That's good lol Yay to no pain! However that is weird how you had a dream of your previous ex 0.0 Maybe your subconscious is trying to compare between previous and current? Either that or maybe your subconscious is trying to get your mind off your current ex haha
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