Saz_angel Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 So basically I have mutual friends with my ex, if I didn't I probably wouldn't even see him. I wasn't aware that he was going to be invited out last night by my friends so I was a bit surprised to see him there. Anyway the night started that he avoided me and pursued to ignore me the whole night. He didn't say hello, no eye contact and continuously sat himself away from me. At one point in the night I tried to speak to him at which point we both went outside but our mutual friends intervened as they didn't want a drama or a showdown. It was then revealed that he had been seeing another girl which I had an inkling about but had confirmed for me. So I went on about the night enjoying myself most often with my other friends that happened to be out as well and chatting with random people. Then I started talking to him and it was great we were talking about work and what we had planned and everything. When we went into the club most of our friends left which I didn't want to do and my ex decided to stay with me. So we started dancing and then all of a sudden out of the blue he kissed me and then it started to go further but he stopped and started talking about this girl that he is seeing. He even at one point said that he was thinking about bringing her along last night. Now hes implying that it was my fault that I was being too friendly which is why kissed me. He also said that he can only deal with me by ignoring me which I find hurts he talks to all my friends but not me and if we are in a group I tend to feel excluded. He says he wants to be part of the group and hasn't been attending any events just lately because of me. So hes not giving up on them but I don't want to but now I'm thinking it might be for the best esp if I know he is going to be there? If I do go out with them should I do what he does and avoid/ignore him? I know hes going to go to my friends birthday party but now I'm thinking out of spite he might bring this girl along with him.
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