Jeremyh55 Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Hey. So right now I have a serious problem. I'll try to make it as short as possible. Back in September 2012 I met this wonderful girl named Catherine who was in my math class, it's funny because when I first layed my eyes on her I knew that I would get her. As months pass nothing has happened yet so I decided to man up and talk to her. And whatta know.. We became great friends! Over Christmas vacation I saw her sitting at the cafe by herself, I went over there and started talking to her. Then I asked her out, " if I were to ask out a pretty girl like you,what would the answer be?" (I know that sounded stupid, but it worked) she said that we should talk about this later. I was so scared because I never heard someone say "we should talk about this later" I thought it would have been a no. So later that day we met up at her house and we had a nice long talk about it and shaazam we became a couple!! Everything was going perfect, I buy her gifts, take her to movies, all that stuff. I pretty much treated her like an ANGEL. Then on the first day of febuary she didn't show up to class, her friend gave me this note from her saying "Jeremy, over these last few months have been wonderful, you were so sweet and nice to me and I thank you for that! But i don't love you anymore. So I guess this is goodbye...I'm sorry." < THAT COMPLETELY DESTROYED ME!!! I don't know why she would do this to me! I treated her right, I was ALWAYS there for her, and she knew how much she meant to me. She was the first girl that I have ever loved. Later on that day I returned home and went on Facebook. I get a message from her saying "did u get the letter? I'm sorry I really am!!" I was to pissed off to answer. I actually was taking the break up pretty well until two weeks later, I showed up for class one day and I notice her, she looked so beautiful in her dress (shes in treble choir,day of concert) I just started to burst into tears. She was so special to me and I never wanted to let her go. I tried to get her to talk to me and ask why she would do this to me. All she said was "oh u did nothing wrong, girls in general change who they love every couple of months." (Is that true??) I told her right then and there that she was everything to me and I would never hurt her or anything. She started to yell " it's my choice!!!! I can love who I want!! Leave me alone!" I told her " OH I KNOW IT'S YOUR CHOICE, there are plenty of other fish in the see, I understand that but when there's this one fish who loves you more than anything, why find someone else?!" She explained that she like someone else, a kid named Nate. I don't get it, Nate is this tiny kid who has no interest in Catherine, he's shy and kinda mean. I don't see why she would leave me for someone like that!! I tried doing what ever I can to get her back but it didn't work. It only made things worse. So right now I feel like **** because I just lost the girl I loved for good. All my friends keep telling me that " it's time to move on" and "she's not coming back" I didn't want to listen to them because I knew if she had a heart she would come back...she didn't. Right now I'm just sitting here by myself with a broken heart crying my eyes out all that time. I don't know what to do. Catherine was everything to me and it hurts so bad that's she's gone. Help?
TaraMaiden Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 You know what I'm going to say then..... don't you? Predictable as it may seem, sadly, it's also true. What seems 'be all and end all' right now, will in time, merely be an episode you'll look back on, as educational, bitter-sweet and a step on the road to who you are..... 1
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