Hot friend: "My boyfriend is getting jealous because I talk about you so much."

[MrLovaLova]

Does this mean anything?

 

I don't know her boyfriend or anything, and we haven't even flirted with each other. I chatted her up because she was hot, but I never never really hit on her. Found out that she has a boyfriend so I backed of. We became friends, then I saw her dancing at a Christmas party and I haven't been able to get her out of my mind since.

 

Then she tells me that her boyfriend is getting jealous because she talks about me so much. Does this mean anything? Any idea why would she tell me this out of the blue?

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Edited March 16, 2013 by MrLovaLova

[ja123]

She likes you. A lot. I think if you made a play for her, she's consider dumping her bf. But then who's to say she wouldn't dump you for someone else? She sounds really young, though ... and probably looking for an ego stroke.

[iKING]

She has some degree of interest.

 

Stay away or strictly platonic until she's single. It's her choice whether she wants you or her boyfriend, but you don't want to play home wrecker, It's not fun, trust me.

 

Just be her friend, if she really wants you, maybe it'll happen sometimes in the future, maybe it won't, but keep safe distance unless she's single. It wouldn't be fair to her boyfriend to try to come in-between them.

[Lani]

She's definitely keen, and that's why she mentioned it to you.

As usual, king is right, stay platonic until she's single.

If you're interested in her, then tell her that. And if she returns that, tell her nothing is happening until she's single, and that if she breaks up with her bf then you can pursue something.

[MrLovaLova]

I should also mention that after she said her boyfriend was getting jealous, she also said "I told him he has nothing to worry about."

 

Is that a subtle message to back of.

 

I am very interested in this girl, and we are friends, but I am not sure if she knows that I liker her. Like I mentioned, I never have really flirted with her except for calling her beautiful very early on.

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[iKING]

I should also mention that after she said her boyfriend was getting jealous, she also said "I told him he has nothing to worry about."

 

Is that a subtle message to back of.

 

I am very interested in this girl, and we are friends, but I am not sure if she knows that I liker her. Like I mentioned, I never have really flirted with her except for calling her beautiful very early on.

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It really all depends on how much you like the configuration of your face. Guys don't take well to other guys trying to get their girlfriends. That's aside from the moral obligations of course.

 

Refer to the advice above, be her friend, wait until she's single. If she's worth the wait have some patience and it might turn out in your favor.

[MrLovaLova]

It really all depends on how much you like the configuration of your face. Guys don't take well to other guys trying to get their girlfriends. That's aside from the moral obligations of course.

 

Refer to the advice above, be her friend, wait until she's single. If she's worth the wait have some patience and it might turn out in your favor.

 

That isn't a problem, different area codes.

 

I have been only friendly, never flirted. I am just trying to figure out what her true intentions are. She is friendly then all of a sudden she drops this bomb on me then she says she told her boyfriend that he has nothing to worry about?

 

Just a complicated situation. I am going to wait until she is single. However, if she does genuinely like me, I am going to tell her to break up with her boyfriend.

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[iKING]

That isn't a problem, different area codes.

 

I have been only friendly, never flirted. I am just trying to figure out what her true intentions are. She is friendly then all of a sudden she drops this bomb on me then she says she told her boyfriend that he has nothing to worry about?

 

Just a complicated situation. I am going to wait until she is single. However, if she does genuinely like me, I am going to tell her to break up with her boyfriend.

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That's what every girl tells their boyfriends about other guys, regardless of their intentions.

 

We already told you she seems interested, but you're going to have to wait for it. Telling her to break up with her boyfriend could just push her away. If you don't value the friendship at all and want to risk never getting a chance in the future, go for it.

 

I suggest just waiting this one out. Unless he's a total doucher I wouldn't even suggest to her to break up with him. If they're happy, leave them be, if they break up down the road, you'll have your chance.

 

Keep in mind, if she's willing to get seriously interested in another guy while she has a boyfriend, she's probably going to do it again with her next boyfriend and they'll end up in the same spot.

[rocketman122]

Does this mean anything?

 

I don't know her boyfriend or anything, and we haven't even flirted with each other. I chatted her up because she was hot, but I never never really hit on her. Found out that she has a boyfriend so I backed of. We became friends, then I saw her dancing at a Christmas party and I haven't been able to get her out of my mind since.

 

Then she tells me that her boyfriend is getting jealous because she talks about me so much. Does this mean anything? Any idea why would she tell me this out of the blue?

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Good boy. now keep backing off. till she's single stay away.