joel Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 how can you tell if a girl really likes you, really loves you and has feelings for you. i met this girl and we went out 10xs and she tells me this. im not the most experience guy when it comes to dating too and im in my early 30s how can you tell other than just believing her. i say this since i also notice her stories dont match up, lot of silences and pauses when i ask her a quesitons, and stories dont add up or later ask again and its a different answer,says she goes counsellor at 6 and then doesnt bother to meet me after on a friday since we always meet up on fridays. how long can a counselling session be 1 hr tops. pros-she texts me a lot and say she misses me and thinks about me . she says she loves me , says im the best bf, pretty inlove wiht me ...... any way you can tell a girl really likes or loves you other than just believing what you hear im thinking of not paying for meals-50/50 and just meeting up at a coffeeshop instead of drving her and picking her up. if she still sees me then i know its real
fortyninethousand322 Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 If you have to ask this question (either to yourself or to others) chances are she doesn't.
Author joel Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 she hold my arms and hold very tight as we are couple though also one date she says she likes me and enjoys time and has feeling with me, other time she loves me and another time im ok and bearable. so its like wishy washy answers.
MrLovaLova Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 (edited) You can't ever know for sure. I have noticed when a girl loves me, she will go out of way to do things for me. Things like remembering my favorite food and making it buying me tickets to my favorite band, taking care of me when I am sick. Anyway, just be cautious and observant. Words mean nothing, actions mean everything. . Edited March 16, 2013 by MrLovaLova 1
iKING Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 You can't ever know for sure. I have noticed when a girl loves me, she will go out of way to do things for me. Things like remembering my favorite food and making them, buying me tickets to my favorite band, taking care of me when I am sick. Anyway, just be cautious and observant. Words mean nothing, actions mean everything. This. Watch for it, you'll know when It's love. I've seen girls and guys do some pretty crazy things when they were in love. If she goes out of her way for you, readily expresses her feelings, and can't leave your side when you're together, those are good signs. 1
Lani Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Joel, is this the girl with the car sex? If so, it seems like there are a lot of issues and you're second guessing everything. Perhaps it's time to let this one go? You'll know when it's love. The feeling will be mutual, and it will be obvious. There really isn't any specific indicator, it's just there, and you feel it. You'll get there, just give it time.
Esoteric Elf Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 how can you tell if a girl really likes you, really loves you and has feelings for you. If you need to ask this question, there is too much doubt, and she it not making it known well enough.
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