PhillyDude Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Sure. Im entitled to a guy who has a 6 figure salary...all is fair in love and war is that because you have a golden......?
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Exactly. Since I go for model types in real life, doesn't it stand to reason I go for the same ones online? Doesn't it also stand to chance those chicks get destroyed with messages? Doesn't it also stand to chance that those chicks are extremely picky and select men taller than me? Or that make more money? Or are male models themselves? I don't understand why people can't grasp that. Have you ever tried OK Cupid? Half of the girls I try to message I can't because their inbox is full...lol
MrCastle Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Exactly. Since I go for model types in real life, doesn't it stand to reason I go for the same ones online? Doesn't it also stand to chance those chicks get destroyed with messages? Doesn't it also stand to chance that those chicks are extremely picky and select men taller than me? Or that make more money? Or are male models themselves? I don't understand why people can't grasp that. Which is why my success is in real life only. My personality is enough to carry me over other men. Personality doesn't carry over online.
MrCastle Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Have you ever tried OK Cupid? Half of the girls I try to message I can't because their inbox is full...lol That's all I've tried. I understand that plenty of fish is supposed to be easier but the girls are lower quality. OKC the quality is supposedly better. I'm not looking for an easy hookup with a gross girl. I'm looking for a solid interaction with a woman I find attractive.
MrLovaLova Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 When I did online dating through OkCupid last year, I wasnt super picky on looks or personality unless the guy was hideous or seemed weird. My problem was it was rare to find somebody who answered questions where there werent red flags. Basically, there werent too many nonsleazy men. Also, I messaged a bunch of guys. Only half responded and another half of that half led to dates. You look gorgeous, I don't know what the guys were thinking who didn't message you back.
iKING Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Sure. Im entitled to a guy who has a 6 figure salary...all is fair in love and war Nobody is entitled to anything, if that's what you want, and can get it, then go for it. Castle didn't say he was entitled to anything, he just said that's what he's been able to get. If people want a specific thing that's their problem, but if someone assumes they're entitled to anything from life, they're going to be severely disappointed. 1
Author kaylan Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 That is the inherent problem with posting your pic on a forum. If you are good looking they'll tell you are attractive and if you aren't good looking they'll tell you are attractive. I have seen similar things on POF forums. Nobody is out there to hurt other another person's feelings, especially if they know you and like you and if you are long time/well respected member of a forum [as you seem to be]. It is no skin of a girl's back to tell you that you are attractive even if she would never date you in real life. Not saying you aren't good looking or anything, just make sure you realize that words are cheap and actions speak louder than words. . Dude the reactions I get from women regarding my body definitely shows me they are not just trying to gas up my ego. I tend to believe them regarding my body, but not so much my face. Then again, I dont think my looks are the problem with my success, so much as the area I live in. 1
MrCastle Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Dude the reactions I get from women regarding my body definitely shows me they are not just trying to gas up my ego. I tend to believe them regarding my body, but not so much my face. Then again, I dont think my looks are the problem with my success, so much as the area I live in. Again--you're black, I'm hispanic. We (well, certainly I) live in a predominantly white area. Don't think that doesn't play a part when it comes to OLD. Look how many chicks select "I prefer to date my own race".
Author kaylan Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 Have you ever tried OK Cupid? Half of the girls I try to message I can't because their inbox is full...lol Full inboxes only happen with like the top girls. I message a variety of girls myself. Plus Im not drawn to the typical hot girl that most guys go after. I find unique features attractive.
fortyninethousand322 Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 When I did online dating through OkCupid last year, I wasnt super picky on looks or personality unless the guy was hideous or seemed weird. My problem was it was rare to find somebody who answered questions where there werent red flags. Basically, there werent too many nonsleazy men. Also, I messaged a bunch of guys. Only half responded and another half of that half led to dates. I really wonder how everybody seems to have wildly divergent experiences with OLD. The guys all say the women are too picky, never message first and never message back. And the women all say the guys are sleazy, there are no nice normal guys on there, and guys never message back etc. Who is right? Who is wrong? Or are they both right? I have had really bad luck with OLD and honestly it's destroyed my confidence (whatever was left of it). I mean I don't mind sharing the blame for the bad behavior of other men on there I suppose, but I honestly don't feel like I've done anything wrong. Though perhaps I'm wrong on that. I just don't know.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Again--you're black, I'm hispanic. We (well, certainly I) live in a predominantly white area. Don't think that doesn't play a part when it comes to OLD. Look how many chicks select "I prefer to date my own race". I'm white bro. Still doesn't work. I'm telling you...it's our game. Something is off.
Author kaylan Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 That's all I've tried. I understand that plenty of fish is supposed to be easier but the girls are lower quality. OKC the quality is supposedly better. I'm not looking for an easy hookup with a gross girl. I'm looking for a solid interaction with a woman I find attractive. The quality, in terms of looks and intellect, is FAR greater on OKC than POF. There are plenty of attractive girls on POF, but also plenty of unattractive gals with egos. And theres an overabundance of dumb airheads with little to offer outside of being arm candy. And I could give 2 shtz about have arm candy.
fortyninethousand322 Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Ehhh I dont think so. Im like Kaylan, I get told I have a hot body and average face. I think alot of people online use it to pass time and dont meet up. Just my opinion. I might eventually try a paid site I don't know, if that's you in you in your picture your face looks better than average. But my opinion doesn't count. So maybe you should disregard it...
MrLovaLova Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Ehhh I dont think so. Im like Kaylan, I get told I have a hot body and average face. I think alot of people online use it to pass time and dont meet up. Just my opinion. I might eventually try a paid site Are you single? I would imagine you would get a lot of attention on any site pay or not. Maybe it's just that you are my type. Cute nose, pretty smile, what more could a guy want? .
Author kaylan Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 When I did online dating through OkCupid last year, I wasnt super picky on looks or personality unless the guy was hideous or seemed weird. My problem was it was rare to find somebody who answered questions where there werent red flags. Basically, there werent too many nonsleazy men. Also, I messaged a bunch of guys. Only half responded and another half of that half led to dates. Which is why I answer some questions privately, and also stopped reading a girls question answers. It kept me from messaging decent girls. Plus, Ive been on OKC for a few years now...and some of my answers in the past, arent what Id be saying now. So you have to take that into account.
MrCastle Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 I'm white bro. Still doesn't work. I'm telling you...it's our game. Something is off. This is where location plays a part I believe. I live in Westchester where interracial dating between white women and ethnic men is almost non existent. Most of my success comes when I go to the city, where I spend most of my time. But I'm not gonna put the city's zip code in when I'm looking for women close to me.
MrCastle Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 I love me some Latino men...too bad I aint your type I dont mind hot coco either. But many prefer their own race so that def could be a problem From your avy you sure look like my type.
Author kaylan Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 Ehhh I dont think so. Im like Kaylan, I get told I have a hot body and average face. I think alot of people online use it to pass time and dont meet up. Just my opinion. I might eventually try a paid site At least we arent butter faces. Amirite? *hi five* 1
Author kaylan Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 Again--you're black, I'm hispanic. We (well, certainly I) live in a predominantly white area. Don't think that doesn't play a part when it comes to OLD. Look how many chicks select "I prefer to date my own race". True. Weve discussed this. And yes, my area can be very whit 1
orionboxing Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Tried online dating for three days and sent a few messages out - got no responses. But it seemed like such a waste of time...and just not positive experience....almost creepy. What I really couldn't get over was how completely alien it felt - trying to communicate with a photo of a person rather than someone in the flesh. I consider myself to look decent enough, but where I succeed is in the moment, being friendly, being myself and not aiming to please. And face it, the odds are not in your favor. Imagine if the real world was like online dating. Imagine a pretty girl standing on the street and you and six guys simultaneously come up to her at once, dropping pickup lines and other dumb tactics to impress her. Does this situation seem appealing for anyone involved here? Not AT ALL. Get tough and get in the real world and start making real connections. So many AREN'T doing online dating and the odds are you'll find better people as well.
MrCastle Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Latino men tend to be more sensual in bed And don't you know it.
MrLovaLova Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Latino men tend to be more sensual in bed...I like to think blacks would too while being hung like Donkey Kong...I drank wine 'scuse me You said something about red flags? They seem to be popping up all over the place. . 1
Author kaylan Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 Latino men tend to be more sensual in bed...I like to think blacks would too while being hung like Donkey Kong...I drank wine 'scuse me Its all individual hun. While I am sensual in bed, Im not hung like DK. The big black penis thing is so over-perpetuated in society. Plenty of white dudes are hung too. Plus Im glad Im not hung, as being too large can hurt a good number of women. Plus I like going balls deep. So ill stick with what I got. Its not huge, but it always fills the lasses right up. 2
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 This is where location plays a part I believe. I live in Westchester where interracial dating between white women and ethnic men is almost non existent. Most of my success comes when I go to the city, where I spend most of my time. But I'm not gonna put the city's zip code in when I'm looking for women close to me. Yeah maybe. I dated some girls from Westchester when I used to live in NY. They were a weird cross between awesome and high maintenance (though, nowhere near as bad as Long Island girls). 1
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