brookebb Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 i just transferred to a new college this semester and my roommate introduced me to her friends, so now i am in their circle of friends. part our group has a guy and a girl and they are in a relationship. they have been boyfriend and girlfriend for a year. i never got the idea that the guy likes me. he is nice to me but it seems that he just has an outgoing personality. today i was in my room and i was wearing a shirt that shows off my boobs. i wasn't showing cleavage but it showed how big they are. i usually never show off my boobs, but i was just chilling alone in my room. he knocked on the door without seeing me in the shirt earlier that day.. he asked if my roommate was there because they were supposed to get dinner. she wasn't there. so then he said.. ok ill see u later.. and as he was leaving he said.. "by the way, u look nice today".. he has never complimented me before, but maybe that is just because we have never been alone together before. maybe he was saying that because he never noticed how big my boobs are. anyways, i am not into him and if he made a move (which i don't think he would), i would never hook up with him, especially because he has a girlfriend and she is my friend. also, i am attractive. his girlfriend is not as attractive as me. not to sound cocky, just giving more information. so was he just giving a compliment or do you think he is into me? thanks.
todreaminblue Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 i just transferred to a new college this semester and my roommate introduced me to her friends, so now i am in their circle of friends. part our group has a guy and a girl and they are in a relationship. they have been boyfriend and girlfriend for a year. i never got the idea that the guy likes me. he is nice to me but it seems that he just has an outgoing personality. today i was in my room and i was wearing a shirt that shows off my boobs. i wasn't showing cleavage but it showed how big they are. i usually never show off my boobs, but i was just chilling alone in my room. he knocked on the door without seeing me in the shirt earlier that day.. he asked if my roommate was there because they were supposed to get dinner. she wasn't there. so then he said.. ok ill see u later.. and as he was leaving he said.. "by the way, u look nice today".. he has never complimented me before, but maybe that is just because we have never been alone together before. maybe he was saying that because he never noticed how big my boobs are. anyways, i am not into him and if he made a move (which i don't think he would), i would never hook up with him, especially because he has a girlfriend and she is my friend. also, i am attractive. his girlfriend is not as attractive as me. not to sound cocky, just giving more information. so was he just giving a compliment or do you think he is into me? thanks. i think it was a nice compliment might not have had anything to do with your boobs......and the other fact he has a girlfriend he wasnt rude he was respectful in his compliment, he didnt hang around to chat you up...i think it was a respectful compliment nicely given......deb
whichwayisup Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Don't read it into much - He gave you compliment because you caught his eye. It is what it is. Though I'm not sure why it's necessary or what the point is to say his girlfriend isn't as attractive as you are.
cindyloo Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 i just transferred to a new college this semester and my roommate introduced me to her friends, so now i am in their circle of friends. part our group has a guy and a girl and they are in a relationship. they have been boyfriend and girlfriend for a year. i never got the idea that the guy likes me. he is nice to me but it seems that he just has an outgoing personality. today i was in my room and i was wearing a shirt that shows off my boobs. i wasn't showing cleavage but it showed how big they are. i usually never show off my boobs, but i was just chilling alone in my room. he knocked on the door without seeing me in the shirt earlier that day.. he asked if my roommate was there because they were supposed to get dinner. she wasn't there. so then he said.. ok ill see u later.. and as he was leaving he said.. "by the way, u look nice today".. he has never complimented me before, but maybe that is just because we have never been alone together before. maybe he was saying that because he never noticed how big my boobs are. anyways, i am not into him and if he made a move (which i don't think he would), i would never hook up with him, especially because he has a girlfriend and she is my friend. also, i am attractive. his girlfriend is not as attractive as me. not to sound cocky, just giving more information. so was he just giving a compliment or do you think he is into me? thanks. I read your other post about the guy hitting on you on the train, and then clicked on your profile and read this other question. I hope this doesn't sound offensive, but it really does seem like you are pretty conceited about your appearance, always referencing how attractive and classically pretty you think you are... I wouldn't read too much into this interaction and instead focus on just being a good friend and good person. Why does it matter if your friend's boyfriend finds you attractive? You shouldn't be doing anything about it anyway. Like the previous poster, I don't see why you care whether you are more attractive than his girlfriend. Typically when a man is in a relationship, his significant other becomes the most beautiful woman to him regardless. A compliment is just a compliment and it probably doesn't have to do with your boobs. Sorry if that sounds harsh, just giving my honest opinion. 1
darkmoon Posted March 21, 2013 Posted March 21, 2013 (edited) i think he fancies you, my opinion only, it's possible some men are opportunists and i so think OP should hold back and avoid this man, he must like his girlfriend or he wouldn't date her, let this go keep out of his way maybe even get a boyfriend of your own but don't tell your friend, she'll never be quite happy to be around you she might even argue with you generally go off you and even drop you, so move on drama over Edited March 21, 2013 by darkmoon
Lst11 Posted March 24, 2013 Posted March 24, 2013 It was just a little flirt. Don't make anything out of it. Since his GF if your friend he wouldn't make a serious move. If there was something he would have said it straight.
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