oh_elizabeth76 Posted September 8, 2004 Posted September 8, 2004 Ok, me and my bf have been seeing each other for about a month, the relationship is exclusive and we both really like each other. I think it's time to take it to the next level and get intimate, but I am not sure how to bring this up. I normally would just let it happen, but we live in different towns, and right now I am living with my mother b/c I lost my job and couldn't afford the rent where I was living anymore, so he usually comes and picks me up or I meet him somewhere. So in order for this to happen we will have to go back to his house, b/c there is no way I could do that at my mother's house, even if she wasn't here at the time. So I just wondered how to tell him I want to.....I would appreciate any suggestions.
Queen B Posted September 8, 2004 Posted September 8, 2004 What about telling him you want to (or need to cause your mothers got company coming ) spend the entire weekend at his place? Sorta gives the hint that you want to stay overnight...without actually coming out and saying it.
Author oh_elizabeth76 Posted September 8, 2004 Author Posted September 8, 2004 Thanks, thats a great idea, but staying the whole weekend at his place is out of the question. I am an adult and make my own choices, but I still would prefer my mother not know what I am doing because I have to live with her, and if she knew I did something like that, she would freak But, you did give me another idea......maybe I could say something about renting a movie......that would at least give us an excuse to be alone....I think the rest would follow w/o me having to say much at all, but I am still open to other suggestions.......
Queen B Posted September 8, 2004 Posted September 8, 2004 Well I spare my mother the gory details of my sex life to..... The movie is a good idea! Also there's the old tried and true method of saying youre going to visit a girl friend in another town...just work it out with her before in case mom calls...good luck!
FolderWife Posted September 8, 2004 Posted September 8, 2004 Maybe since you've only been together a month, and he lives pretty far away, HE'S NOT READY to get intimate yet. Can you just let him do it on his own time, and not push? Pushing a relationship is the fastest way to kill it.
Author oh_elizabeth76 Posted September 8, 2004 Author Posted September 8, 2004 I know he's ready, there is no question in my mind. I just haven't been ready up until now.
Author oh_elizabeth76 Posted September 9, 2004 Author Posted September 9, 2004 Well, I brought up the subject of watching a movie at his house this weekend, and he went for it. After alot of beating around the bush by both of us, I think he also knows what else I have in mind for the night........
sami Posted September 9, 2004 Posted September 9, 2004 Make sure you are both ready and well protected. If you know what I mean.
Author oh_elizabeth76 Posted September 9, 2004 Author Posted September 9, 2004 Thanks, and I will make sure.
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