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Ok to try an sum this up is rather challenging but I will simplify it as much as possible.

 

I met this girl through a friend an after a few times of meeting up she text me asking why I never made a move on her. Truths be known I was t looking for anything an she just came out of nowhere. Anyway things started to happen between us. Then beginning of December we went out one time she said since we had kissed etc she had been on dates with other guys an she said she thinks its because she was trying not to like me. (I know I should of flipped at that but I didn't) I just swallowed it an let it go because of how much I genuinely liked her.

 

She even then suggested we go in proper dates an so we did everytime we went out we would always h r a great time together. Come January we had a falling out I left her to have some space for a week an then when trying to reconcile I came on way to strong by saying I was falling for her stupid I know but I was following advice from a close female friend. This alienated her further from me which I realise an hold my hands up to as my fault.

 

Anyway I didn't text for 3 weeks exactly but when I did I sent her a silly message about our inside joke of taking over the world an then said I missed her. Her reply was I missed you too.

 

We ended up meeting up just last week it was brilliant I felt the same way I always used to acted confident an so on she mentioned how she had missed my texts etc. the night ended on a high no kiss she wanted just friends so i respected it. but when I got home I ha a text saying thank you for tonight I really missed it do you still feel the same about me ? I could tell she really enjoyed our time together.

 

Why on earth would you say that if you've just said all night your still not ready for a relationship. An I'd just been honest about how I felt about her all night?

 

Since then I have sent her a message or two but shes been very aloof I don't know whether I'm meant to keep trying or just take myself off the raft again.

 

 

Thanking you in advance

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