Ninja'sHusband Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 (edited) I'm finally feeling less and less inclined to read or comment on various threads and I think it's probably a good sign for me. Just wanted to thank everyone here for listening, arguing, and giving good/bad advice. It's been a really important venting place for me and sometimes great source of advice It's made me feel much less alone that's for sure. I think in particular seeing couples that make it through to the other side has been eye opening for me. I never would have gotten that otherwise I don't think, other than on an anonymous forum. I can see why my marriage failed, why others succeeded, and come to relative peace with that. For those who contributed to my big thread, thanks for reaching out like that (it's the largest thread in the infidelity section:sick:) Kinda like BH's big "farewell" thread a while back, this probably isn't really goodbye, but I thought I'd send out a thanks since I feel myself slowly disappearing from this site and moving onto other things. Sooo, THANKS!!!! Especially you BH, I love the work you are doing here and people seem to really appreciate it. And they should Edited March 15, 2013 by Ninja'sHusband 19
TigerCub Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 I'm happy for you for reaching a place where you don't need this forum as much- NOT that I didn't enjoy reading your responses and your insights Good luck with everything 5
whichwayisup Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 NinjaH, do take care of yourself and enjoy life. Glad to have helped you through your rough time, sorry that it all happened to you. Next woman who comes into your life is a lucky one! 7
BetrayedH Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 NH, your thread was only so long because you needed so much mental help. He, he. Although I think mine was probably a close 2nd so I shouldn't talk! You're alright in my book, brother. Boy, did we have some wacky wives or what? But we made it and life is on the upswing. Enjoy the break. I tried more than once to get away. Didn't take. I've decided that I must still have something to learn or something to say. Initially the benefit was much like you described - to know that I wasn't alone (and that I was "normal"). Now it's about something else - giving back, I suppose. Being able to help one BS to make sense of the nonsense or to get one WS/OP to see thru that bubble and make a more ethical choice just seems worth the effort of a few words typed into a phone. As for you, I don't remotely think that you're too broken to be out there in the dating scene. You're one of the most gentle souls I know and now you're armed with a damn good bit of relationship wisdom. You have more to offer than most, my friend. Check-in back here from time to time (or don't). Run! You're one of the few with my contact info so hit me up if you ever come towards Florida. We'll knock back one too many and maybe go burn some stuff in my exwife's backyard. Peace. 6
Author Ninja'sHusband Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 NH, your thread was only so long because you needed so much mental help. He, he. Lol, probably true! Thanks again everyone 2
Summer Breeze Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 I'm glad you're in a place now that allows you to let go of LS but I'll miss your posts. You and BH have a great way of wording posts and sharing both your pain and your wisdom. I wish you the best NH. 3
leonine Posted March 18, 2013 Posted March 18, 2013 Thank you NH. Like I said in my post, it's people like you who can really help others here. It's probably healthy to get away from it at some point though. Your next partner will be a very lucky woman. :-). All the best. 1
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