Cassandra_lynn Posted September 8, 2004 Posted September 8, 2004 [font=times new roman][/font][color=blue][/color] My boyfriend after two years broke up with me. We were serious. I loved him.. he loved me and then yesterday at work he broke up with me.. AT WORK.. then I tried to talk to this with him and he blew me off saying he didn't love me anymore. How do I get over him?
EC Posted September 8, 2004 Posted September 8, 2004 What exactly happened? Why did he break up with you?
Author Cassandra_lynn Posted September 8, 2004 Author Posted September 8, 2004 He broke up with me because he couldn't take this anymore.. Thats all he told me... we were going together for 2 years.. and all of sudden he isn't happy.. I gave him so much of me..
EC Posted September 8, 2004 Posted September 8, 2004 That's horrible. I feel your pain and your hurt. Unfortunately you are not going to be able to move on and heal untill you talk to him and get some closure. At least a full explanation.
sully35rq Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 I f he was a real man he would sit down with you and talk to you!! and explain to you why he is breaking up with you!! do not get yourself in a hole with this guy!! think of this for a min!! what if you were married and had some children!! and he pulled this stuff!! it is better that it happens now then in the future!! he is someone that does not want to open up to you!! you may have never saw the real him!! is he hiding something?? or maybe he is scared of committment!! he really needs to open up to you!! all I know from my past with a marriage/divorce and also breakups with women is the both of you need to be honest with each other!! and say what is on your mind!! you just might learn from this!! good luck and I hope it works out!! if not try to move on!! it will take time to heal but there are plenty of fish in the sea, like my mother use to say!!
Author Cassandra_lynn Posted September 10, 2004 Author Posted September 10, 2004 I really want to say thank you to you. You made me think about this. The only thing is it hurts like hell.. I keep thinking of things I gave him.. I feel used.. yes he bought me things but I gave him myself.. which felt like being pressured.. Thank you once again.. I do appercaite this..
SadAndLonely Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 I just had my best friend call my recent ex and tell him that I know it's over and won't pursue him anymore, and all my ex said was "ok", and just sounded neutral, according to my friend. I thought I meant something to him. I thought he loved me and was just having a difficult time in his life, but I guess he doesn't want me anymore.
Author Cassandra_lynn Posted September 10, 2004 Author Posted September 10, 2004 I am sorry to hear that.. I know how it feels.. I just am trying to think happy
SadAndLonely Posted September 10, 2004 Posted September 10, 2004 God, I'm sorry. I meant for that to be its own post, and meant to tell you that I'm in the same boat you are. Whatever you do, don't call him. I did that tonight and now I only feel worse. I feel your pain so acutely, and can only tell you that you deserve so much more love than you're getting.
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