Esoteric Elf Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 Not sure what you mean. Judging by your gif you do just fine with women. Don't judge me:p You might make an incorrect judgement, which you just did.
happykat Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 I'm more concerned if doing so is actually worth the effort. Putting myself out there and attracting 3-4 women that I don't want isn't that much better than attracting no women. I'm sure any decent-looking female would agree that not all attraction is good attraction. After all, I don't want any women. I'm also concerned when a female no other male wants comes to you just because you are open to be approached. Wow what a snotty thing to say/write. I am decent looking and I actually do think that any attraction is good and I appreciate being approached by any man in that way really, I guess because I realize that for some men it's a very difficult thing to do (to approach a woman).. And I am flattered and delighted by it all, not just from the good looking ones.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 I've gone to bars pretty often in the past. I've found that, yes, women will approach you even if you're standing around not doing anything. I've been approached by a significant amount of women in my life (to give you some context, I'm good-looking and short). But there's a few issues with this: 1) It will probably not happen every night you go out (ie: you can't depend on it). 2) If you're not leading the interaction, you don't know where it's going. 3) You will not get to choose the women that you really want. IMO, approaching is WAY better for men than waiting to be approached. I would have missed out on some really awesome girls if I waited for them to approach me.
Necris Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 (edited) Then you're saying I'm just an attractive guy which feels nice buy my ego disagrees. It also makes me feel sad for the guys who are finding another way to be self-defeating. Come now OP you didn't even approach these women, they came to you, and wanted to be with you, for a guy like myself that just doesn't happen. I have never in my entire life ever had experiences like that and most likely will never happen. Seriously let's be realistic here its just not going to happen. You say you need to "play the game" but you yourself didn't even do anything you just happen to just attract women without any effort on your part. I don't think of myself as self-defeating but rather realistic. For some guys having women being interested in them and being a magnet for female attraction just isn't realistic. I realize now its probably best for me to not waste time, money, and energy on frivolous pursuits like having relationships with women, having sex, etc. I should be perfectly content being a single virgin and use my energy on more important pursuits that can actually help me in life. Edited March 17, 2013 by Necris 1
somedude81 Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 Hey guys. I went to an Irish pub a little while ago and I had a beer and watched a show. No girls approached me and offered me sex. Did I do something wrong? 3
StanMusial Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 Hey guys. I went to an Irish pub a little while ago and I had a beer and watched a show. No girls approached me and offered me sex. Did I do something wrong? You forgot to shave off that Fu Manchu moustache. On the other hand, if you decide to leave it, next time try wearing a t-shirt that says "FREE MOUSTACHE RIDES"
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