FrustratedGuy91 Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 I'll try to keep this short. A girl I slept with once, and then she got into a relationship and we kinda had no contact for a year recently got single and we started hanging again, I didn't try anything mainly because she was kinda seeing someone else, and when we hanged it was never the two of us, there was always this friend we have in common. Two days ago we went out (the 3 of us) and at some point she dropped that she was no longer seeing that guy, after that we went to a night club and I started some subtle flirting, she seemed okay with it. Yesterday she invited me (and our friend) to a party, but this time when I picked them up she insisted in taking the front seat, whereas the other night she insisted taking the backseat, and then she always wanted to seat near me, and was clear about it. Like at some point we were sitting and our friend was in the middle, and she moved and sat next to me so I was in the middle. She said it was "so she could participate in the conversation". There was some more subtle flirting, again she seemed completely okay with me being and talking very close to her. What should be my next move? I'm a shy, and I don't know why but people think I'm like super confident and successful with women. Should I ask her out? All advice is welcome
Cutiepie1976 Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 Yes. Ask her out for lunch, to go for a hike, or to do something that is a shared interest but allows for lots of chatting, flirting, and accidental contact.
FitChick Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 You've already had sex with her. I don't understand why you are afraid of her. 1
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted March 15, 2013 Author Posted March 15, 2013 Well she mentioned she wanted to start jogging a while ago, and even told me if I wanted to join (she also asked our friend). But she was seeing that other guy at the time, so I said I was busy. You've already had sex with her. I don't understand why you are afraid of her. I'm not afraid, I'm just shy. And the time we had sex we had a few drinks before doing it.
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 So, what do you people think? Is she interested in something or just friendship?
IAmRobot Posted March 17, 2013 Posted March 17, 2013 Yes she is interested. Who cares though. You'll never know until you text her and tell her to hang out.... as in just the 2 of you.
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