Author calgary Posted March 17, 2013 Author Posted March 17, 2013 even though I've blocked them both... my ex's friend went out last night with my ex and the photos still came up on my news feed.. I can't really delete this girl because she's my friend too and everythings ok. I can't delete facebook, because i'm isolated as is it and it's my only way of really communicating at the moment. besides my ex is still going to the place my friends all want to go and I refuse to go, she can't have my club, facebook and our mutual friends too. I already feel like I've lost a lot . I know he's back in her town tonight. so they're probably together right now. it's really bothering me and it shouldn't at all. I don't know how to get these thoughts out of my head.
Mumbles Posted March 18, 2013 Posted March 18, 2013 besides my ex is still going to the place my friends all want to go and I refuse to go, she can't have my club, facebook and our mutual friends too. I already feel like I've lost a lot . I know he's back in her town tonight. so they're probably together right now. it's really bothering me and it shouldn't at all. I don't know how to get these thoughts out of my head. Seriously, I understand mate. I was pondering this since my last post and remembered something from earlier in life before my wife did her thing. I had the exact same experience in my late teens, my beau of the time and I broke up and within the week she was sleeping with a good mate of mine who I share-housed with!! Yes, you can imagine, I could hear them humping away in the next bedroom. That really affected me. I was young and inexperienced and had a terrific crush on this girl. But you have to harden up or it will devour you. Don't focus on it - the thoughts will come to you naturally of course and when they do, feel your pain, experience it fully and you will get through. ****e, have a good cry, don't worry about it, letting emotional stuff out can release its hold over you.
Author calgary Posted March 18, 2013 Author Posted March 18, 2013 that's absolutely cruel and flat out awful! they tortured you. nobody should tolerate that. I wouldn't wish what i'm going through on anybody.. I still hope she misses me, I still hope she'll get in touch and I wish I didn't. I wish I didn't want that apology and love back. i'll never take her back. I need to move on. I just want to kill these thoughts and this hope and move on.. but im really struggling tonight.
na49 Posted March 18, 2013 Posted March 18, 2013 Unsubscribe from that girl's updates. She won't know about it and you won't have to risk seeing her upload pictures of your ex. Don't get too down on yourself. We all want that apology and love back. I'm having a rough night tonight too.
TaraMaiden Posted March 18, 2013 Posted March 18, 2013 calgary - enough now. For pity's sake - for your OWN sake - enough. Now. Quit. 2
Author calgary Posted March 18, 2013 Author Posted March 18, 2013 calgary - enough now. For pity's sake - for your OWN sake - enough. Now. Quit. yea thanks I just needed a slap out of it. 1
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