Emmii Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 Details I've recently been hanging out with a guy and have only slept with him once. After sex we had a very deep conversation where he was opening up to me about his life. A few days after we were sitting down chatting about things and it turned into a serious conversation as he said he loved women or shape, size and race. I turned around to him and said that's just you a jerk with lots of women on the go. He said I wish I don't have time as of work and my kids. He then asked me what I wanted. I told him I've always been straight with him and i want a relationship and all the things that come with it. He turned around and said to me well then what am I? I said I don't know?! I asked him what he wanted and he said he didn't know himself. He was confused. He said that he wouldn't wanna hurt me as he cares for me. Then he started asking me about my ex and how and what he was like. He also asked me how would my mother react if I took him home. What's he trying to tell me? We've only slept together once. Since then his started telling me about his personal problems. I'm confused with him asking what I want as his said he didn't want a relationship and just fun and yet he got upset when I couldn't explain what we were as I've been hanging out for a few months. Pls help
lover4721 Posted March 18, 2013 Posted March 18, 2013 I am actually very surprised that no one answered this because there is a lot of help on this forum! It seems very complicated and you can never read anyone's feelings which is actually very terrible! Have you guys talked recently? I don't think he really knows what he wants, OR even if what he wants is in you. Maybe it is not and seems to just be pushing you away. Please do not let him use you for sex - there are absolutely many more guys who would really become attracted to you emotionally and if you let this man run your feelings and keep playing with your head, you aren't going to meet those good guys anytime soon! So can you update us?
Author Emmii Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 I am actually very surprised that no one answered this because there is a lot of help on this forum! It seems very complicated and you can never read anyone's feelings which is actually very terrible! Have you guys talked recently? I don't think he really knows what he wants, OR even if what he wants is in you. Maybe it is not and seems to just be pushing you away. Please do not let him use you for sex - there are absolutely many more guys who would really become attracted to you emotionally and if you let this man run your feelings and keep playing with your head, you aren't going to meet those good guys anytime soon! So can you update us? I would say read my thread on friendships awkward I don't know how to behave
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