Awarth Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 hey everyone, just wanna rant.. here's e background story...Ex-gf had G.I.G.S, left me for another guy after 5 yrs..well, it has been almost 1 and a half yrs, no contact in the mean time..then as i had mentioned in previous post, her bf cheated and dumped her... thats when she start calling me and leaving breadcrumbs like "if i come back to you, will u accept me?" and things like "you are always a safe heaven for me" and blah blah blah.. i still do have feelings for her and do want her back, but i decide to take it slow, as she had just been dumped and probably in an unstable state, so i did not make any moves to get her back, she will call me frequently saying how sad and lonely she was..and this goes on for around 2 months.. then suddenly, she disappear again, no more calls or msg, i did call her once, and its like a one word conversation again, lol, definitely a sign that something is not right, LOL! and what did you know, i just found out she is having dinner with that guy again, "at the place where they first met", and apparently she went back to his room after that..haha, guess there is no need for anymore elaboration.. i am actually feeling not that bad right now, sure, my heart do have a little "empty feeling" but i am fine, guess that is because i did not invested too much feelings and pour my heart to the ex this time... So, i urged other fellow dumpees, whether u think gigs is real or not, if your ex suddenly call and stuff, DO NOT be too happy just yet, he or she may only be using you as a ego boost, or an emotional punching bag..if he/she really wants to come back, she will give you a clear sign and express it very clearly..if you get too excited, you are setting yourself to be hurt again.. Cheers everyone! happy weekends! =)
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