Inviv_girl Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 How's everyone doing btw? I'm.. okay.. not too bad. Away from home now in another country, live in a big city full of life. Im trying to meet new people, trying and trying.. but still "him" on my mind. One moment I feel I forget him and happy, another moment I feel sad, he suddenly stick back on my mind. I dont know why.. I feel I still find it hard to "be" with another guy. Even to just to talk more and get to know another guy I feel I lost my confidence and withdraw myself quickly. What is wrong with me? I can still feel the pain my ex- caused me of our break up, I feel afraid, I feel unsecure, too many mixed feeling in my heart, it seems stopped me from moving on.
SimonSerenade Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 Aw I know how that feels, some days are just better than others but the fact your forgetting him at all means your making emotional progress, sometimes the heart is just like that, you hold on for so long, precious memories do that to you but over time they fade away, it's all natural, don't feel bad. Don't let this break up be a hit on your confidence, just take things at your own pace, in your own time things will turn out right, your probably not ready to "be" with other men yet, I didn't do anything like that for over a year and a half until I met my recent girlfriend, it all works out for the best in the end, just speak to these guys as friends and see how it works out, don't put pressure on yourself to do something your heart simply isn't ready for. Move on from the hurt and pain first, make that your first priority, take some time all to yourself and accept what's happened and time will help you move on, right now I think that's what's important, you'll be with another guy when your good and ready, try and look forward to those times good luck.
Author Inviv_girl Posted March 18, 2013 Author Posted March 18, 2013 Aw I know how that feels, some days are just better than others but the fact your forgetting him at all means your making emotional progress, sometimes the heart is just like that, you hold on for so long, precious memories do that to you but over time they fade away, it's all natural, don't feel bad. Don't let this break up be a hit on your confidence, just take things at your own pace, in your own time things will turn out right, your probably not ready to "be" with other men yet, I didn't do anything like that for over a year and a half until I met my recent girlfriend, it all works out for the best in the end, just speak to these guys as friends and see how it works out, don't put pressure on yourself to do something your heart simply isn't ready for. Move on from the hurt and pain first, make that your first priority, take some time all to yourself and accept what's happened and time will help you move on, right now I think that's what's important, you'll be with another guy when your good and ready, try and look forward to those times good luck. Thank you for your time to respond my post, I really appreciated it, your advice truly made my day and I feel secure from it "Move on from the hurt and pain first" is what should do, and you are right! I'm still crying over him from time to time, day by day.. I still cant feel the hurt to go away, but I'm trying.. I dont know how but I try to switch my mind whenever he popped in, it is hard..really hard but I do try!
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