Being Used and Becoming TOO Attracted?

[napy666]

My friend tells me she really likes this guy she's been seeing on and off for 4 months now.

 

She really likes him but he does like her and doesn't like her. She also tells him "I love you" but he doesn't say it much.

 

Or if they go out he isn't affectionate towards her like he doesn't hold her hand, or hug her, or kiss her, etc. She always has to make the first move.

 

They hang out every other day and every weekend, he buys her dinner or gifts on and off. He returns her phone calls or text messages etc.

 

But when they're having sex its all fun and grand.

 

She says they're best friends but she wants something more. But he doesn't want to commit to being a couple.

[Desensitized]

Brah... if she's already telling this dude 'I love you,' move on. Any girl that says 'I love you' that quick isn't someone you want to be with tbh.

[amy12]

So why does he like her but doesn't like her? But they have grand sex? What is it that makes him so against being a couple? Doesn't make any sense. It seems like you should know after 4 months of a relationship if you're at least heading towards loving someone, otherwise you're stringing them along, right? Maybe she shouldn't be saying I love you yet but she's welcome to her own feelings, just as he's welcome to his. I've never understood the pressure some people feel about this.

[starla33]

So why does he like her but doesn't like her? But they have grand sex? What is it that makes him so against being a couple? Doesn't make any sense. It seems like you should know after 4 months of a relationship if you're at least heading towards loving someone, otherwise you're stringing them along, right? Maybe she shouldn't be saying I love you yet but she's welcome to her own feelings, just as he's welcome to his. I've never understood the pressure some people feel about this.

 

a lot of guys just want a sex friend