RiceaRoni Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 I need to remind myself of everything my ex did to hurt me after he broke up with me...so that I can stop feeling upset and sad. (we had a 14 month RS) - called me a mistake - called me a psycho - said I was a series of unfortunate events - said F*** you when I started ignoring him - criticized me for everything (way I dressed, the things I liked, etc) - got with a new girl so quickly after our BU and called her his soul mate and started planning future plans with her in front of me. (wedding, children) - showed her off in front of my face. - used the same song he sang to me..he sang to her I just feel like he didn't value 'us'...especially for something that long (I knew him 5 months before we started our RS) He has shown me that he could easily throw me to the side and get with someone else so quickly...like I didn't matter or was so easily replaceable.. and what makes me more upset is that he's afraid of being replaced, and he felt hurt when I began to ignore him to heal...yet he has done all of those things to me...
sharkbite Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 keep remembering those! you can do so much better, a truly good person's actions don't resemble any of his.....just wait till you meet someone like me! haha btw...what does RS stand for? 1
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 15, 2013 Author Posted March 15, 2013 keep remembering those! you can do so much better, a truly good person's actions don't resemble any of his.....just wait till you meet someone like me! haha btw...what does RS stand for? haha yeah I have been reminding myself everyday! lol, and RS stands for 'relationship'
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 15, 2013 Author Posted March 15, 2013 Oh yeah I also remember I asked him if he still cared about me and he said "yeah if you died I mean if be sad" Pissed me off so much...the fact he'd only cared if I died. And I remember going to a play and seeing him and his new gf. She looked at me and gave me the most mocking, smile/smirk ever. If I wasn't so respectful and mature I would have gone after her. I know violence never solved anything but that just irritates me. He can't even face me when he sees me. Couple of days ago I went to a meeting for my sister, he stood behind me and said something to his friend. I turned around our eyes met and I turned back around. From then on he couldn't look at me and kept looking the other direction when I was in the same area/room. I didn't realize I dated such a coward. Broke up with me by text. It feels good to vent
sharkbite Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 I hear ya, vent away!...we all need it! but rest assured, anyone breaking up over text is just that....a coward! that hides behind technology so they don't have to do the dirty work, its a joke and shows no respect, my friend's wife just did that to him.....she USED to be my friend until i heard that garbage......texting to end it all? wtf as for the violence....very true, doesn't solve anything and will only put you in a troubling position down the road. Better to just leave the situation. Glad you showed class and breathed through it, musta been hard, I give you a lot of credit. your doing the right things, just enjoy being single......its not a bad thing! 1
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