iouaname Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 So today makes one month of no contact, officially. I am very excited and very proud of myself that I was able to accomplish this -- even when it seemed overwhelmingly painful at times. I am now embarking on month two, where now that I have gotten past the initial detoxing phase, I have set a lot of goals for myself to try to accomplish within the second month. I'm very excited! I just want to say thank you to everyone who has been there for me, everyone who has smacked sense into me during my weaker-minded moments, and everyone who has just been there to offer some kind words and uplifting advice! 14
shatteredworld Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 I don't know your story, but I am proud of you! That's the hardest part of any break up and you've gone so far through it. I'm only just past my first week of it so you're way better than me! hah
Thunderchild Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 So today makes one month of no contact, officially. I am very excited and very proud of myself that I was able to accomplish this -- even when it seemed overwhelmingly painful at times. I am now embarking on month two, where now that I have gotten past the initial detoxing phase, I have set a lot of goals for myself to try to accomplish within the second month. I'm very excited! I just want to say thank you to everyone who has been there for me, everyone who has smacked sense into me during my weaker-minded moments, and everyone who has just been there to offer some kind words and uplifting advice! Well done!!!
Damaged23 Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 Glad to hear you're doing so well iouaname As for me, as days go by I feel worse and worse. I wonder when one day, at least one day will come that I feel like my old self, before I met my ex.. I just need one day, to realize that I will be fine, so far, nothing.. And it's killing me!!
newsbug Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 Monday was the month mark of the breakup so I still have another week before I hit the month mark of NC. Everyday sucks and I still think of him all of the time. I still have the same questions running though my mind and I know I will never have an answer to them. I have been getting better at acting normal even though I still feel broken inside. Today has been especially hard for me to not try and look at his fb page, which is why I have been trolling on here so much. I know there is nothing on there that will help me...no answers as to how he could have loved me so much that he would ask me to marry him and then just leave me for someone else. My therapist says I'm getting stronger so I guess I am. I don't really have a choice in the matter...if I had a choice none of this would have happened, but it did. So now I have to get over it.
Author iouaname Posted March 15, 2013 Author Posted March 15, 2013 You'll all definitely get there! You just have to give it time and be willing to do the cheesy things that are meant to empower you. Don't put pressure on yourself to do or feel anything! You'll get there. I'm sure that there will be rough days to come for me, but I look at the difference between where I was each month after the break up and this past month has felt like a tremendous difference. I definitely attribute that to having gone and stuck with no contact, as well as using it to improve myself and do things to take care of myself. 1
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