BehindBlueEyes Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 In my previous story I was crushing on a girl who is awesome, moved away so I've been keeping in contact with her ex co-worker who is a very "boyish" looking gay girl(I hate the word Lesbian) Anyways we hug each other and all that, shoot the shiat and talk about her relationships. She is a really good kid, hard working and just...a person you want to be around. I'm starting to crush on her lol.... Obviously it isn't her looks....she looks like a boy and often her and I would laugh at some child's comment about that "mom is that a boy or a girl? At first I was like HOLY COW! I'm so sorry!! I felt terrible, but she reminded me that she absolutely doesn't care about that and knows she looks like a boy. She even refers to herself as the "dude in the relationship" She gets some hot GF......met one of them in the store. Anyways....I am really liking her.....crushing even... Thinking about asking her to the movies just as friends.... I feel as if I want to be better friends with her.
whichwayisup Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 E, you need to learn to be 'friends', really friends with a girl and not end up crushing on them, and getting emotionally attached to the point of it turning into something romantic. Fact! She's gay. Fact! you have no chance with her! Fact! You need to detach and treat her like a male buddy even though she's a woman. Detach! Otherwise this friendship is down the toilet. Sorry to be blunt. Just because a woman (gay or not) is nice to you and may be a friend, doesn't have to turn into a crush or possibly you give yourself 'hope' for something more. You cannot be 'just' be friends with someone innocently and want to get to know her if you have ulterior motives for wanting to take her to a movie. Hope this makes sense to you. 1
Author BehindBlueEyes Posted March 14, 2013 Author Posted March 14, 2013 E, you need to learn to be 'friends', really friends with a girl and not end up crushing on them, and getting emotionally attached to the point of it turning into something romantic. I know it! I know it! I hate it too!... With that other girl I stupidly FB stalked her a few days ago and yepp,....new pics and stuff about her man being the best man in her life and marrying before 20014 etc etc.....of course amazingly beautiful pictures of her. then comments section where old highschool friends saying how awesome she looks, one of her guy friends telling her how he joined the Marines.... she's like Wow, awesome....I hope someday you can come see how my little family is progressing. But me....a complete blank in her mind probably, sits here jealous as hell that I can't stop at the store anymore to see her....I hate these feelings. I just want it back lik eit was last summer....Stopping at the store on a hot evening to talk with her and her co-worker.....who is the gay one I am talking about. I think I am now hanging onto her Co-Worker because she is the closest one to the other girl and still keeps in contact....I even wished one day that I would stop in and her co-workers tells me **** asked about you... That would make me:) but so far....nothing. I'm just never friends enough to her to qualify for "come to my funeral if I die" friends status. just sucks.
Radu Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 In my previous story I was crushing on a girl who is awesome, moved away so I've been keeping in contact with her ex co-worker who is a very "boyish" looking gay girl(I hate the word Lesbian) Anyways we hug each other and all that, shoot the shiat and talk about her relationships. She is a really good kid, hard working and just...a person you want to be around. I'm starting to crush on her lol.... Obviously it isn't her looks....she looks like a boy and often her and I would laugh at some child's comment about that "mom is that a boy or a girl? At first I was like HOLY COW! I'm so sorry!! I felt terrible, but she reminded me that she absolutely doesn't care about that and knows she looks like a boy. She even refers to herself as the "dude in the relationship" She gets some hot GF......met one of them in the store. Anyways....I am really liking her.....crushing even... Thinking about asking her to the movies just as friends.... I feel as if I want to be better friends with her. I'd advise you to keep it platonic and try to learn from her how to pickup hot girls. Talking to a few lesbians/bi girls helped me a lot in the past in this regard.
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