A n t h o n y Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 Broke NC yesterday after 3 months. Backstory real fast. Ex broke up with me after she told me she wasn't over her ex. Obviously I was angry, upset, and it hurt me pretty badly to be a rebound. I thought a lot these 3 months and honestly I think she made a mature decision breaking up with me. She could have strung me along but instead she was honest. I can't blame her either after really thinking about it. I knew what I was getting into. She was just broken up with this guy after a 3 year relationship. But anyways, last night I shot her a text asking her if she would like to meet up and talk. She said yes pretty quickly and we met up and caught up and discussed things. She seems pretty miserable, she's taking anti depressants, she looked like a mess and was telling me how her ex just ended up using her again like I knew he would. She's failing school, has no idea what she wants, and is just drinking / doing drugs. Her ex moved last week ( 1000 miles away.)Before she left I never mentioned any idea of being her "friend" just gave her a hug smiled and told her to have a nice day. Thinking I'm going to leave it at that, if she wants to talk ill be here other wise I'm just going to leave it alone.
Damaged23 Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 I'm sure you feel bad for the girl because you may still love her, or care for her. But don't you think being around her will affect you in the long run? She's upset about her ex, so may use you for comfort. I think you should just let her go, and find someone of your own. You get me? I hope you feel better.
Author A n t h o n y Posted March 16, 2013 Author Posted March 16, 2013 I'm sure you feel bad for the girl because you may still love her, or care for her. But don't you think being around her will affect you in the long run? She's upset about her ex, so may use you for comfort. I think you should just let her go, and find someone of your own. You get me? I hope you feel better. Yeah I feel you. I have her blocked / deleted on everything. I feel like I've said and done all I could and I'm just leaving contact up to her at this point. If she comes around great if not ill be fine honestly. I know that in the end I did all that I could to help her out.
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