Lisa_Lisa Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 Hey guys, I recently posted another thread about my situation titled, "He broke our first date. How do I proceed?" Basically, since that time, he and I have spoken on the phone - for hours. We got to know each other a lot, but we are still in this process. There's still a lot more I want to know about him. We had sex on Thursday, and it was good. He told me he may be addicted. Of course, I think, he's probably lying - our age difference is him (21) me (33) - and he must say this to all the girls. He even said sexually he was expecting a cheeseburger, but got a filet mignon. I don't know. But it's flattering, I guess. Since then we've communicated via text and phone. He says things that make me think he's more serious than I am. I personally don't just want a f*ck from him. I want to hang out with him and go to the movies, dinner, walk around holding hands, and all that. But I'm not sure what my feelings are - I'm still getting to know him. It'll take a while before I can even consider something solid. He says things like, do you see yourself in a relationship with me, don't hurt me, promise you won't leave, etc. He's not clingy, but I know he's stripping down his walls when it comes to me. He says he doesn't usually do that. Just yesterday he said he loves me, but I can't say it back. I have feelings for him - they're not deep feelings, but feelings nonetheless and I want to continue seeing him. I told him I really really like you. He says I like you too, but it's more than that for me. The second time we were intimate he looked at me and said I have magical powers. When he said that I just thought he was being nice. Maybe he's just confused? Infatuated? Maybe he's in a sex haze? He can't possibly love me after 2+ weeks. What do you guys think?
PogoStick Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 No need to rush the L word! He's young and doesn't know WTF he's talking about. He's still bombarded by testosterone so it's common to confuse sexual desire with other emotions. You'll need to be the adult and find the real connections in the relationship. And the things he is saying are just plain cheese(burgery). 2
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