blue_jay_bird Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 I miss my ex so much. I'm getting to the point of wanting to break NC. It's been 9 months since BU. The only thing that is stopping me is that he has a new girlfriend. Any contact would bring them closer... It's over, I miss him. Why can't I contact him. ?
Author blue_jay_bird Posted March 14, 2013 Author Posted March 14, 2013 It will be two months till it will be a year that I saw him. I'm so ****ed I still wake up everyday, thinking about him. When will this insanity end.
A1A Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 I wouldn’t recommend contacting him. I know how you feel. My ex already has a girlfriend too and it’s killing me every day. But think ahead, what if you do contact him, and let’s take now the picture perfect outcome (not the one you said that it will get them closer, which probably true)… let’s say he will want you back and will breakup with his girlfriend… Sound like a dream, right??? Well he might do the same thing to you in the future. His current girlfriend, which will be his ex, will miss/contact him (like you did) and then what? It’s a lose lose situation. He will either get closer to his girlfriend and all your progress in the past 9 months will be gone, or he will give you the attention that you wished for but only because you pushed it, not because he realized that he missed you by himself. I am sorry you still miss him and feel the need of contacting him. Be strong and focus on yourself. I think you worth more than suffering like that for so long. Good Luck!
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