Mr.Curiosity Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 Alright, so I love this girl at my school and i'm 99% sure she likes me. I don't have any classes with her but, in most classes, she has the period before i do. I had sprained my knee so i go to my classes 5 minutes early and see her in the room. I try to say hi to her when the period is over but she doesn't necessarily say hi back either because she doesn't hear me or is shy, I don't know. When she walks by with her friends, I sometimes hear them whispering to her things like, "He said hi you know" or "Why don't you just talk to him". I'm not a person who likes to break the ice with these kinds of things. I want to ask this girl out so badly but when she walks by all of my self esteem is blown away. If I can make this happen with this girl, it would be a turning point in my life. I've never loved a girl as much as i do for her and she will (hopefully) be my first girlfriend. Should i be the one to start the conversation or should i wait until she's ready to talk. Give me advice and comment on if you think she likes me or not. Please Help Me!!!
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 Calm down and go have a normal conversation with her. Just saying "hi" won't get you anywhere anyway. So it doesn't really matter if she responds to it or not.
mortensorchid Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 Yes, you do have to do something better than coming up to her and saying "hi". You should try to start an actual conversation with her, preferably when she's alone and doesn't have others to hide behind. If she doesn't respond to that ... Well, this reminds me of a story. Many years ago this guy I knew said he went out with this girl the other weekend, he really liked her. But everytime he saw her in the dining hall, she would run the other way scared. He asked me what that meant. I said "You really need ME to tell you what that means?" Needless to say, it didn't go anywhere.
Lani Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 Do you know her name? If so, throw that on the end of the hello and it might get her attention more. And next time she's alone, stop her and ask her if she wants to do something some time. If she says yes, then ask for her number. If she says no, then just brush it off and move on. It's really not that hard, and it sounds like you have nothing to lose...
Author Mr.Curiosity Posted March 14, 2013 Author Posted March 14, 2013 Alright I'm going to go with what Lani said and try to get her to pay more attention. I know that you want me to make a move but im not ready for that yet... sorry. I've been rejected once before and it DID NOT feel good. I'll tell you what happens tom. and take it from there. Baby steps people.... baby steps.
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