sunshine6 Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Had emotional/partly physical (kissing/touching) affair with current coworker. How doomed am I that this will never stop until a possible D-Day? He seems over it. And I do. I just wonder if it will last.
ThatJustHappened Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 Huh? What do you mean are you doomed for it to continue? If you don't want it to continue..don't continue it.
Author sunshine6 Posted March 14, 2013 Author Posted March 14, 2013 I keep reading on here about how work affairs never seem to end until one person either leaves, or they are caught. My question is more will he keep coming around - will the cycle keep continuing? We called it quits for the umpteenth time the other day. For the first time, he seemed really more over it than ever before. Has anyone ever just "felt" that it was, finally, officially over without a D-day?
anne1707 Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 It's over if you want it to be over and act on that. Things don't just happen to you. You do it to yourself. 1
georgia girl Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 Sunshine, What about you? What do YOU want? I know that sometimes OW's feel its about the man's needs. You're a grown woman with needs, expectations, dreams and ideals. What are you looking for? Does he have it? If he does and he wants you, demand he choose you and only you. Any one who won't choose you solely, with equovication, without waiting for a d-day where he gets his you-know-what tossed out, ain't worth your time. My advice: tell him what YOU want. If he doesn't deliver, tell him to get lost. You actually are allowed to have everything you've ever wanted - including commitment - from the right man. See if he wants to be the right man.
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