Dragonfruit Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 I think so much of it is "having game." Which, when you think about it, is really quite stupid and therefore not had by many of your best people. So for the young guys who have a hard time "getting in the game" (of which I have a personal an undisclosed interest in) what do you think of church groups? My thinking, church girls are nicer. Who can be the coolest punk is not it. Do you think joining a huge church and getting in with the young adult and singles groups is a good idea? What if you are not actually very religious? Whatchu think of that?
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 I think so much of it is "having game." Which, when you think about it, is really quite stupid and therefore not had by many of your best people. So for the young guys who have a hard time "getting in the game" (of which I have a personal an undisclosed interest in) what do you think of church groups? My thinking, church girls are nicer. Who can be the coolest punk is not it. Do you think joining a huge church and getting in with the young adult and singles groups is a good idea? What if you are not actually very religious? Whatchu think of that? Personally, I'm a young that "has game." Church girls are definitely not all that innocent. They're just less honest about their escapades. And, yes, I know this from experience. 3
somedude81 Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 I tried a singles group in a church a while ago. Everybody was 40+ years old.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 I tried a singles group in a church a while ago. Everybody was 40+ years old. Cougars, bro. 1
ltjg45 Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 I tried a singles group in a church a while ago. Everybody was 40+ years old. I'm not messing with cougars. No telling what they are up to.
ThaWholigan Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Church girls are not that innocent. It's a myth - they can be some of the freakiest women . I just think you shouldn't limit your pool until you find your niche.
Author Dragonfruit Posted March 13, 2013 Author Posted March 13, 2013 Say this young guy has just kind of fallen through the cracks. Big, strong, well educate, good guy, but doesn't quite get "the game." Do you think church singles/young adult group would be a good place for him? If the girls aren't so innocent, perhaps even better. But maybe a guy like that would fit in better than he would in singles bars or online dating?
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Say this young guy has just kind of fallen through the cracks. Big, strong, well educate, good guy, but doesn't quite get "the game." Do you think church singles/young adult group would be a good place for him? If the girls aren't so innocent, perhaps even better. But maybe a guy like that would fit in better than he would in singles bars or online dating? I think if a guy doesn't get girls anywhere else, he won't get girls in church. 1
ThaWholigan Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Say this young guy has just kind of fallen through the cracks. Big, strong, well educate, good guy, but doesn't quite get "the game." Do you think church singles/young adult group would be a good place for him? If the girls aren't so innocent, perhaps even better. But maybe a guy like that would fit in better than he would in singles bars or online dating? It wouldn't make much difference. He should widen his options first and then narrow down his niche, who he attracts.
Keenly Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Church groups sound great, I'll give it a try! Do you think any of them would welcome an atheist who can think for himself and questions things if they sound unlikely and there's no evidence of it whatsoever? The answer is no, and that's why we can't do that. They are quicker than anyone to judge, with far less information too.
StanMusial Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Sounds like another gimmick. If you aren't into church or you're an atheist why would you bother?
Pompeii Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Well, it depends. For a guy with no "game", bars and clubs are shark tanks and inexperienced men will be eaten alive in those environments. I think an environment like a church group would be a good place to meet girls beyond a superficial place such as clubs and bars but there will probably be much resistance on the part of the girl to uphold her reputation within a that setting. You definitely don't want to seem like a "slut" to your church friends because you're having sex. No, no. Can't have that. "Game" to me is a combination of extremely high perceived self-worth + social adeptness. If you have those two, you cannot go wrong.
Philosopher Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Joining a church singles group is a great idea if you are somewhat religious. I have known quite a few people who have meet in this environment. As you are not religious though it could backfire however. For the girls there religion will be a big part of their life. As a result they will ask about your religious beliefs fairly early on which will put you in an awkward position. 1
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