orionboxing Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 I think it totally depends on the person you are - and how much you can forgive. For example, good girl dumps bad guy. Good girl will feel so much more remorse and sadness over the separation that they are willing to check in on the guy because that's just how they've been raised or shaped. They are sympathetic and genuinely care about other people even the ones that have treated them bad. So, not really gender specific. It's the one's with the most heart that have the most grief!
coltsfan1 Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 I feel like women will always have bottles on their shelf that they can open after a break up. They keep their shelf stacked... Even if it's unitentially. A guy however... Unless he is cheating.. Or emotionally cheating... Will Usualy have to restock his shelf once the breakup happens. Amen to this!!! However there is a reason for it, woman have what men want. Just that simple. 1
Author singme2sleep Posted March 14, 2013 Author Posted March 14, 2013 Are you saying women who are the dumper get over it faster or just regardless? Because its 2 months for me and I'm not over him at all. Thought that I had finally accepted its over but then last night I started missing him so bad that I went to sleep at 10pm to stop myself from breaking NC!
coltsfan1 Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 Are you saying women who are the dumper get over it faster or just regardless? Because its 2 months for me and I'm not over him at all. Thought that I had finally accepted its over but then last night I started missing him so bad that I went to sleep at 10pm to stop myself from breaking NC! I am saying that woman generally not always have another male who is ready to pursue them, especially if she is above average in looks. While men generally have to start looking for another woman to pursue. IMO woman way more than men will consider a male who has a girl friend to be off limits WAY more than a male would consider a woman with a significant other to be off limits. Could just be my age too.....
lovnlost Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 Women have options...especially if they are attractive. Like my ex. Picked up the first retard to pay her any attention. 1
Thunderchild Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 Dumpers tend to move on quicker than Dumpees. So, which gender does the most dumping?? Anyone??
Wabisabi Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 Nothing to do with gender. Imo, dumpers move on quicker. When I was a dumper, I moved on quickly, when I got dumped, well...*sigh*
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