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Hey guys,

 

Now that i got your attention i would like to share my story with you.i will try to keep it short.

 

I ended up with the girl i was chasing.absolutely beautiful and gorgeous girl...on the outside.i was on cloud nine at the beginnig of the relationship.during later stages i started to experience things which were against my understanding but i thought maybe i just have to compromise.She started fighting with my flatmates,started checking my phone messages,my facebook,my skype etc.i stopped seeing some friends i used to hang out with because she did not .i talked to her and told her this should stop and she has nothing to worry about.the last six months before the break up i got promoted in my job and during the probation period i was under a lot of stress so maybe i did no pay enough attention to her as i usually did.once i was in the toilet and she entered and grabbed my phone from my hands and asked what was i watching.i had a porn actress twitter on which i do not find to be a major issue so i got pissed off for invading my privacy and called her a psycho.she slapped my face which anger i have not seen before.it was almost hatred like.anyway we made up that day.after two weeks i came back from work with a flower.she was just going to work so i had 5 min with her.when she opened the door i saw the look in her eyes.i have seen this look in my first girlfriend when we broke up so i knew very well was about to happen.i gave her the flower without saying a word and stood at her house until she got ready for work without saying a word.i asked what is wrong while waiting for her taxi to come and she said it was not the time to talk.i called her on the phone to she said she is not happy.after two days of no contact wrote her on skype if she would like to talk.she said she is tired of talking and do not want to be with me anymore.i responded that i hope she will be happy and find what she is looking for and deleted her from skype.it has been month since then.I went no contact since the moment i deleted her from skype.i did not want to embarss myself.the thing is i think she should have broken up with me in person just out of respecet.it has been a month and she has not contacted me as well. it is hard for me to move on as i still think she is gorgeus and i acted like an ******* for a while.should i call her?

If i have to write the whole story it would be very long so i hope these facts

are enough for you to give me some sort of advice and if you think her actions are normal from a girl's point of view.thank you

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