zanesfan Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 (edited) There is this guy (28) in my city that I have been talking. I found out that him and his gf of 9 years broke up. I dont know how long ago it was but I would say no more than 3 months. We play kickball every year but never really said much to each other (he had a gf at that time and I was in a relationship.) So he sent me a message on FB asking if I wanted to be on his team this year and I said yeah. To make a long story short, we stop talking via fb and start texting (he initiated). I made it clear that I wasnt trying to be a rebound and he assured me that he didnt see me in that light. He said he thought I was very pretty and someone he wanted to get to know. So for the past 2 weeks we have been "talking" via text. This man works days, nights, and weekends so he barely has time to do anything. I dont like to date men like this but they are all I seem to attract. Anyway he suggested we hang out sometime (in public). I asked what was he doing since he rarely has a weekend off and he and a friend is going to VA. Im a little discouraged because within a month we have not spent a single minute together and we live in the same city (within 10 minutes of each other). Should I let this go? Am I just a texting buddy? We talk everyday and most nights. I want to just move on but Im not sure if Im making a good decision since Ive heard and seen so many great things about him. Edited March 13, 2013 by zanesfan
Yookie Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 He never has a weekend off yet when he finally does, he decides to spend it with his buddy?? Let this one go. He is too busy to date so how will you ever get a relationship going? 1
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