love01 Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 (edited) My ex boyfriend & I broke up about 3 months already. Before the break up,he cheated on me with another girl. He acted all distance out of nowhere & at the end he decided to break off with me. During this 3 months he had been acting like a jerk. & I mean seriously. He called me all sorts of names like fat bitch & left me a lot of sarcastic remarks. Obviously I am very pissed & upset at the same time. I don't know why he is doing this to me. Sometimes he will start a conversation on twitter with his best friend leaving me sarcastic remarks too. All along I didn't say anything bad about him to anyone & he's treating me like a trash. Whenever I post something on twitter,whether a tweet or a picture he'll have something to say. Very very hurtful things. Obviously I unfollowed him on twitter & blocked him. My life gets so much better. But recently he started it again. I have a best boy friend that I usually chat on twitter. My ex started writing nasty things about us that totally pisses me off. I don't want any social network drama going on but I seriously don't know what to do. He's being such a jerk & I really feel so helpless. Edited March 13, 2013 by love01
mcdo Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Can you completely block him from all avenues? Because that to me is starting to sound like cyber bullying. If you've got evidence to report him to the relevant websites then use it.
Author love01 Posted March 14, 2013 Author Posted March 14, 2013 Yeah,actually I've blocked him on twitter already but still he's creating all these drama. I guess reporting is not a great idea. If my report I accepted I'm sure he indirectly knows I reported him & he's going to make a big fuss out of it. Anyway,I really appreciate your reply. Thank you so much & take care x!
geegirl Posted March 14, 2013 Posted March 14, 2013 The best you can do is block him. If you block, I don't understand how his messages are getting through to you. It shows a lack of maturity and a vindictiveness when someone does that. Most times bitter and unable to accept the fact that you are moving on. The only way he can get back at you is to attack you. I know you can't see it, but this actually helps you move on because it allows you to see his true nature. I know it affects you, but I will guarantee you that in time, his words will not affect you anymore. By then, you'll be detached and you will hold strong to how much better of a person you are by never having to have stooped to his level. Stay strong. It's just ramblings from an insecure person. It doesn't define who you are.
Author love01 Posted March 15, 2013 Author Posted March 15, 2013 Even though I've already blocked him but his best friend is still following me on twitter. His friend tried to copy his words just so I could read them. Maybe I should consider unfollowing his friend as well but then again,this is between us,nothing gotta do with his friend. I'll try to stay strong even though for that split second it really hurt my pride & my self esteem went really low. But I really appreciate all the positive support I am getting here & from my friends. Thanks a bunch,you people are awesome!
Charlene78 Posted March 15, 2013 Posted March 15, 2013 If his friend is participating in the bullying, then you should unfriend/block him too.
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