Pompeii Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Hey guys, I've been browsing these forums for a while and I've also been looking at some other forums. I'm trying to start dating. I really want to start but a lot of things have been holding me back. I don't know if I'm good looking enough, charismatic enough, etc. But I still want to try. I'm 19 and I'm really tired of seeing my friends get girls and me not getting any. I'm going on Spring Break next week and I'm hoping I can start interacting with girls there. Maybe once I get enough alcohol in my system, I can get some "liquid courage" and stuff. I think it would be a good diving board. Can anyone guide me to a successful interaction from meeting a girl to having sex with her with a low failure rate?
Tinstrally Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Honestly Pompeii, I’m one of those women looking for men. I can’t really understand guys feeling awkward or rather a bit scared if that is the right term courting a girl. You don’t need alcohol in your system because you might mess things up. Just be courageous, that’s all.
Soxfaninfl Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Honestly Pompeii, I’m one of those women looking for men. I can’t really understand guys feeling awkward or rather a bit scared if that is the right term courting a girl. You don’t need alcohol in your system because you might mess things up. Just be courageous, that’s all. When I was Pomeii's age, alcohol always helped to loosen up the nerves to help to talk to women. It's doesn't make you more confident, but it doesn't relax you more, so you don't become tongue tied.
Author Pompeii Posted March 13, 2013 Author Posted March 13, 2013 Actually, alcohol has helped me disregard a lot of inhibitions as soxfaninfl said. I tend to give less of a **** when I'm drunk. Obviously I don't want to get so blasted to the point where I can't communicate but alcohol has pushed me past that barrier so to speak.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Hey guys, I've been browsing these forums for a while and I've also been looking at some other forums. I'm trying to start dating. I really want to start but a lot of things have been holding me back. I don't know if I'm good looking enough, charismatic enough, etc. But I still want to try. I'm 19 and I'm really tired of seeing my friends get girls and me not getting any. I'm going on Spring Break next week and I'm hoping I can start interacting with girls there. Maybe once I get enough alcohol in my system, I can get some "liquid courage" and stuff. I think it would be a good diving board. Can anyone guide me to a successful interaction from meeting a girl to having sex with her with a low failure rate? Do you go to Harvard?
Chae_Nead Posted March 22, 2013 Posted March 22, 2013 Hey guys, I've been browsing these forums for a while and I've also been looking at some other forums. I'm trying to start dating. I really want to start but a lot of things have been holding me back. I don't know if I'm good looking enough, charismatic enough, etc. But I still want to try. I'm 19 and I'm really tired of seeing my friends get girls and me not getting any. I'm going on Spring Break next week and I'm hoping I can start interacting with girls there. Maybe once I get enough alcohol in my system, I can get some "liquid courage" and stuff. I think it would be a good diving board. Can anyone guide me to a successful interaction from meeting a girl to having sex with her with a low failure rate? You’re still pretty young and there’s still time for you. Drinking a little bit never hurt anyone and will probably loosen you up. But never over do it. Learn more about the effects of alcohol and stick to what you know. As long as you stay safe it’s a pretty useful tool for social interaction. Best of luck.
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