Slumpd Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 So I recently met a girl in one of my classes. Class was cancelled one day and we both had nowhere to go so we ended up sitting at a table, hit it off pretty well and talked for a good 45 min. I asked her for her # two days later the next time I saw her, and she seemed pretty happy and pulled my phone out of my hand and put it in for me. We've been texting about every day for about a week now, with her initiating a lot. But I can't tell if she's actually interested or just likes my attention. I say this because although she was fine with giving me her #, she's one of those girls that get like 25 likes on instagram. Probably has a lot of options. Laugh but hey, you know what I'm talking about. Also she's said a lot of things like we need to play poker and she'll teach me how to play chess. One time I said you probably suck, and she said "i know ;)" lol. But the thing is, I was texting her Sunday night and tried to make plans. I said I was learning a song on guitar, and she said she wanted to hear it. I said ok, then we'd have to hang out soon. She never replied and got back to me monday morning saying she fell asleep. Never acknowledged me saying lets hang out soon. She asked me what I was doing but I never replied, then she texted me again that evening asking if an assignment was due. Thus breaking the unwritten rule of "never send two in a row". So I don't know. The constant communication would be a positive sign, if she didn't ignore my attempt to make plans. I realize the only real answer is just be straightforward and ask her on a date... Just thinking out loud here
pbjbear Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Its too soon to tell though Im leaning towards her liking the attention. When I like a guy I dont ignore attempts to make plans to see him 3
luvflower Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 it really is too soon to tell. time will tell... never underestimate time... ;-) 1
todreaminblue Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 So I recently met a girl in one of my classes. Class was cancelled one day and we both had nowhere to go so we ended up sitting at a table, hit it off pretty well and talked for a good 45 min. I asked her for her # two days later the next time I saw her, and she seemed pretty happy and pulled my phone out of my hand and put it in for me. We've been texting about every day for about a week now, with her initiating a lot. But I can't tell if she's actually interested or just likes my attention. I say this because although she was fine with giving me her #, she's one of those girls that get like 25 likes on instagram. Probably has a lot of options. Laugh but hey, you know what I'm talking about. Also she's said a lot of things like we need to play poker and she'll teach me how to play chess. One time I said you probably suck, and she said "i know ;)" lol. But the thing is, I was texting her Sunday night and tried to make plans. I said I was learning a song on guitar, and she said she wanted to hear it. I said ok, then we'd have to hang out soon. She never replied and got back to me monday morning saying she fell asleep. Never acknowledged me saying lets hang out soon. She asked me what I was doing but I never replied, then she texted me again that evening asking if an assignment was due. Thus breaking the unwritten rule of "never send two in a row". So I don't know. The constant communication would be a positive sign, if she didn't ignore my attempt to make plans. I realize the only real answer is just be straightforward and ask her on a date... Just thinking out loud here what is instagram is it like facebook?
Author Slumpd Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 Its too soon to tell though Im leaning towards her liking the attention. When I like a guy I dont ignore attempts to make plans to see him Yea I saw that as a weird red flag as well. It was like 1 am but still the "ooops I fell asleep in the two minutes waiting for your reply" is an easy copout.
Author Slumpd Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 it really is too soon to tell. time will tell... never underestimate time... ;-) true but no one likes waiting. god forbid i get... friendzoned... :0
Author Slumpd Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 what is instagram is it like facebook? it's pretty much facebook except you can only post pictures.
Green Light Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 what is instagram is it like facebook? The kids are running to Instagram to get away from their parents who are now on Facebook. 1
Author Slumpd Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 Where are castle and archgirl when you need them.
truth_seeker Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Ask her out on a date. If she doesn't give you a definite yes then she's stringing you along. 2
Djz05 Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Yeah just be upfront and ask her out for a date. If she dodges the question then dont waste your time. Stay friends if you like but otherwise she's just stringing you along.
Author Slumpd Posted March 13, 2013 Author Posted March 13, 2013 It just gets old with people playing games. She texted me more than an hour ago saying hey. I reply whats up in like 5 minutes, and she still hasn't replied. It's like I know you got my text, you initiated the convo... just talk to me lol. She does that a lot too. I wish everyone was just up front about their intentions
todreaminblue Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 The kids are running to Instagram to get away from their parents who are now on Facebook. crap now i have to find instagram to stalk my teenage daughter.....
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