american1992 Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Hey everyone, I'm in college and last semester there was a girl in one of my classes who I could tell was interested in me. I never talked to her but I caught her staring at me every once in a while and she would quickly look away. I didn't make a move and didn't show any interest in her because I had a girlfriend but now that I'm single I have felt like approaching her. Unfortunately, now she thinks im just uninterested in her. I only ever see her in the school library now where she is always sitting at an individual desk with her headphones in, never looks up, and is focused on her work. When we occasionally walk by each other I try to make eye contact but she either quickly looks away when she catches my gaze or avoids it completely. I have encountered shy girls but all of them have at least looked at me face to face before. I would normally just go up to her and say hello and start a conversation but since its been like 6 months since first seeing each other it would just be awkward. I guess my question is: is there any way to approach this girl without being overly obvious and awkward?
hppr Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 Shy girls/guys open up once you get them talking about something that interests them so figure out what it is in the library she's always reading up on and go talk to her. As for being in a relationship or whatever, don't worry about that. If she does ask why you were 'distant' before or seemed 'uninterested' say that you were having a 'bad breakup'.
will1988 Posted March 13, 2013 Posted March 13, 2013 no one is unaporachable, it just takes balls and the confidence. Go up to her and just start talking her. Tell her you see her all the time and thought you'd say hello. good luck!
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