Author Niccolo Posted September 11, 2004 Author Posted September 11, 2004 I was wondering the same thing chris, I don't know what to think. Just majorly played.
sami Posted September 11, 2004 Posted September 11, 2004 This is not uncommon with some girls. They give you every impression to follow up their leads but suddenly shock you with unexpected statements like " my boy friend" or " I like or see you only as a friend or a brother!!!!!!!". May be we need to do more studies on gender differences.
cdn23 Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 yeah omg!!! thats a date already, tell us as u get her ok?!!!!
spanishlover Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 Originally posted by Niccolo I'm in a bit of a pickle here. I'm a freshman in college and while eating breakfeast in the caf, I notice this cute chick sitting all by herself looking a bit lonely. So somehow I worked up the balls to go over and ask if I can join her. We start talking and I'm digging her and it seems she is interested, I crack the jokes and come off casual. Now mind you all of this is very uncharacteristic of me, I'm usually the shy guy. Anyways, she says she has to get back to her dorm so I ask if she has a cell and I get the number and we part ways. Now I'm trying to figure out a couple of things, 1, if she's really interested in me or if she is just being nice, and 2, how long should wait to call her to set up a date or whatever. I'm rather inexperienced with girls. Thanx in advance. I would normally wait 2-3 days after we parted to call her. as this dosnt seem to be to eager but also shows that your still intrested. If she was "just being nice" she would not have given you her cell. So by this in assume she likes you "on another level" and maybe go out for a date. If she was just being nice and was not intrested in a date when you asked for he cell she could off said that my cell is broken, or my brother is using , or it was stolen.. Your on to one here mate. go get here tiger!
Author Niccolo Posted September 12, 2004 Author Posted September 12, 2004 It would be nice if you read the whole thread before you replied...
spanishlover Posted September 12, 2004 Posted September 12, 2004 OOooo sorry. . I would say she little miss bling ting (as we would say anyway) she seems like she dont known what she wants. so she keeps ringing you to hang out and i asume flirting as well. then giving the spanner in the works by saying she has a BF. Stick it out for a bit and see what happends.
Author Niccolo Posted September 14, 2004 Author Posted September 14, 2004 Eh, just fck it. I don't even want to talk to this girl anymore. Now it's back to my lonely search. If an opportunity such as before arises, I just need to be sure to be ballsy again. Any suggestions for continuing my search?
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