AwptiK Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 I was with this girl for the past 4 months and things were incredible, to say the least. She just broke up with me today though. I'm 21, she's 22. I'm a wordy person, so i'm actually going to immediately add a reply with nonsense/thoughts, and just state as much fact as I can here. Here's the situation.. She's the type to get insanely stressed, down, etc. She has a 2-year old daughter, which also hurts to lose... When she first had her kid, she hasn't done school or work at all. She decided to finally start nursing school in January. Her first 5-week term was a breeze, and then this second term started with some harder classes. She failed a test today and that led to the end of our relationship. I know most will see this as a bs-excuse, but when she has such a commitment in her daughter and then another huge commitment in school, worrying about someone else isn't something she has time for when her future is on the line. Which, to be honest, is only fair to me as well. I was really good about her and her school-time though, some days we didn't text more than good mornings, good nights, and an hour or two between school and her study time. I told her some days I wouldn't text back until she was done studying...I helped her study some nights too. As for the breakup, she basically told me she failed a test and needs to be able to focus on school like she needs to. In my initial reply, I had simply said that I was willing to do what I needed to, to make things work. Less time together (which is really just one day a week), less texting.. But she said she couldn't do that, reaffirming her need to focus. I haven't texted back since. This happened today.. I dunno what to do, obviously NC, but as far as considering the chances of reconnection. I'm going to reply to this and add thoughts and probably solid proof her reasoning isn't bs. Feel free to read that, but this is the main stuffs.
Author AwptiK Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 (edited) To add; Things were amazing. We were both probably the best-off in any relationship we've ever been in. It was a no-compromise relationship. So, for one..sex was incredibly intimate and fulfilling for both of us, in a lot of ways. She's slept with more people than me, and she was always letting me know just how amazing things were. She told me once that her past was lacking satisfaction almost every single time. And two weeks ago...she told me ever since she started having sex, she always had dreams of super intimate, super satisfying sex with a faceless-man. After telling me this story, she said that she believes i'm that guy she dreamed about. Hell, I made her squirt. Only time in her life she ever has, after always wanting to and always thinking she just wasn't able. I'm more at a loss for words than I thought regarding what to say here. I KNOW she was happy with me, with us. Obviously enough to figure it was a distraction from school.... I feel odd that my only major point here was sex, but as a guy my age, it was definitely a major loss. The other points are such a blur and too much to even think about, as i'm that lost.. Only guy who's never cheated on her, only guy who's taken her on real dates, a lot of onlys... I simply hope that it's feasible that after a week or two, she'll miss me. After all, her not being focused on school isn't MY fault, because i've been there to help and sacrificed time to help. She'll find another source to blame, i'd think. Edited March 12, 2013 by AwptiK
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