babyfacexox Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Theres a guy ive been talking to, and recently his been acting diffrent (after meeting him for the first time). His a libra & so am i, im single & he is not we have 1 mutual friend. he flirts with me alot, texts me all through out the day and night, sends me goodmorning and goodnight messages, he buys me food, is extra nice when im around, plays with my hair, teases me alot, has nicknames for me, we talk everyday. Yesterday he said that he hopes i miss him when he is not around i dont know what that means .. also i dont want to be a homewrecker as i know he has a gf so i dont know what else to do but ignore him .. HELP!!!!
ChessPieceFace Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Theres a guy ive been talking to, and recently his been acting diffrent (after meeting him for the first time). His a libra & so am i, im single & he is not we have 1 mutual friend. he flirts with me alot, texts me all through out the day and night, sends me goodmorning and goodnight messages, he buys me food, is extra nice when im around, plays with my hair, teases me alot, has nicknames for me, we talk everyday. Yesterday he said that he hopes i miss him when he is not around i dont know what that means .. also i dont want to be a homewrecker as i know he has a gf so i dont know what else to do but ignore him .. HELP!!!! Think about down the road when you're his GF, and he's flirting with and texting some other new girl. If you want to be the betrayed GF in that situation, hey that's your choice! And you deserve exactly what you get. Because as little respect as he's showing his GF now is how little respect he will show you one day. 3
Author babyfacexox Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 Think about down the road when you're his GF, and he's flirting with and texting some other new girl. If you want to be the betrayed GF in that situation, hey that's your choice! And you deserve exactly what you get. Because as little respect as he's showing his GF now is how little respect he will show you one day. true that i understand that why do you think im ignoring him, i want to confront him but i want to know for sure, i dont want to be his gf .. im only willing to be his friend thats it, i want to straighten that out with him
ChessPieceFace Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 i dont want to be his gf .. im only willing to be his friend thats it The detailed info you posted in your OP including both of your zodiac signs, the tone/perspective of the post and the fact that you even came here asking about this, all indicate the opposite. Maybe you are in denial of what you really want. That would be extremely common. But in case you somehow don't want this guy, and "just want to be his friend" -- uh, you seriously don't see how that won't work? He's putting his relationship in jeopardy to flirt with you. What kind of guy is that, what kind of "friend" is that? And why is he so important "as a friend" to risk that? Tsss.
iKING Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 We had another thread about this last week, I'll re-visit the topic. If he's willing to do it with you while he's in a relationship, odds are he'll be willing to do it with someone else if he's in a relationship with you. I'd avoid this guy, it may be fun, but the whole situation only spells disaster. There's really nothing good that can come out of it. 1
MidwestUSA Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 true that i understand that why do you think im ignoring him, i want to confront him but i want to know for sure, i dont want to be his gf .. im only willing to be his friend thats it, i want to straighten that out with him So you're saying you want to be his friend. Are we talking with benefits? Teasing, playing with your hair, nicknames? What? Why set yourself up to be used? Let his current GF find out another way what kind of guy he really is.
Author babyfacexox Posted March 13, 2013 Author Posted March 13, 2013 So you're saying you want to be his friend. Are we talking with benefits? Teasing, playing with your hair, nicknames? What? Why set yourself up to be used? Let his current GF find out another way what kind of guy he really is. i do realise, no no benefits at all were strictly friends, ever since my last break up i have had no friends him and his friend who are now my best friends mean the world to me, but ever since his started to act this way ive been so confused as to what to do. I know he is in a relationship and i respect that completely i dont want him for my own in anyway i know if i do that will be the outcome my original question is what should i do?! not what kind of person am i?! .. i want him around but not romanticly, but before i confront him i want my facts straight is no one reading what im wrighting seriously?! READ IT ALL AND THEN REPLY.
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