shoesies05 Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 soooo... Im in college and well I have a TA for a class that I've had a bit of a crush on and eventually I made a move on him (subtly) and he went with it and we went on a date. We've been texting a lot and he's been the most sweet guy! The night after I emailed him my number he left me a gift of some pastries with a friend at a class of mine that he'd seen me in before and tried to have my friend sneak it in y bag without me noticing but she just gave it to me and I figured that it was him. He always has just lit up whenever he's seen me and it has been so nice to be greeted like that! well anyways. he practically said he fell in love with me at first sight (i mean he literally said that but said I would think he is crazy for it) and keeps complimenting me all the time and told me that he can't stop thinking about me and that ever since he first saw me he has been talking to his friend all semester about me.... and he seems to want to see me all the time. he confessed to me that one day he was kind of hanging out around the building hoping to run into me so he could walk with me to go get coffee with me. im starting to get a little scared/overwhelmed. IDK if I'm overreacting or what but like the way he looks at me and talks to me so sweetly/flatteringly with such a sincere attitude is unlike anyone else before. i told him i want to take things slow and he told me that he would wait for me forever if i wanted him to. ... hes also a foreigner - idk if that would make any difference. he also hasn't had much experience with women at all (I asked cuz I had a feeling that he hadn't) anyways- any advice?
TaraMaiden Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 One: How old are you guys? Two: Where is he from?
Author shoesies05 Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 Im 25 and he is 26. he is from Iran
TaraMaiden Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 At the risk of making a sweeping statement, he sounds emotionally stunted.... How long has he been in your country? Understand that in Iran, they probably don't have the kind of social liberty we have in the west... So interaction with the opp. sex is probably either restricted or prohibited.... I think he feels like he's in a candy store and he's found a lollipop he really likes! Just guessing.....
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