LisaLopex8 Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 My bf and I have been dating about a year now. It is my longest relationship. Here lately, however, things just haven't been them same. We have seen each other less, talk to each other less, and his ex gf has came back into the picture. He claims he hates her and hasn't spoken to her in years. She and I have mutual friends on facebook. When I tag my friends in photos or posts, she "likes them." I mentioned this to my bf a few days ago and he seemed mad. He was with his best friend when we had this conversation- and I just found out his friends have added her on facebook after these events have occurred. Something just doesn't feel right about that. It makes me wonder if something is actually going on between them now. Why would his best friend add his ex that he supposedly hates, right after talking bad about her. I felt like it was for show. Should I be worried?
will1988 Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 My bf and I have been dating about a year now. It is my longest relationship. Here lately, however, things just haven't been them same. We have seen each other less, talk to each other less, and his ex gf has came back into the picture. He claims he hates her and hasn't spoken to her in years. She and I have mutual friends on facebook. When I tag my friends in photos or posts, she "likes them." I mentioned this to my bf a few days ago and he seemed mad. He was with his best friend when we had this conversation- and I just found out his friends have added her on facebook after these events have occurred. Something just doesn't feel right about that. It makes me wonder if something is actually going on between them now. Why would his best friend add his ex that he supposedly hates, right after talking bad about her. I felt like it was for show. Should I be worried? I believe he may very well be cheating on you. However, if you ask him if he is cheating he will just get mad and throw it back in your face. so I would try to gather more information, but I am not telling you to read through his phone.
mitchell Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 How is the sex between the two of you lately. Is he losing interest? Sex becoming less frequent and less passionate?
TaraMaiden Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 I believe he may very well be cheating on you. However, if you ask him if he is cheating he will just get mad and throw it back in your face. so I would try to gather more information, but I am not telling you to read through his phone. No. Of course not. Neither am I. Perish the thought...... 1
Treasa Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Ok, I read it three times, and admittedly I only got four hours of sleep last night, but I don't see what your boyfriend did that got you upset. You and his ex have mutual friends. Maybe your boyfriend's friends want to be friends with her. When you say you see each other less and talk to each other less, how much of a decrease has there been, and was it suddenly, when the ex-girlfriend came back or whatever?
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