RiceaRoni Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 So I havers ken a break from teaching the dance class at the high school to prevent seeing him, but today my sister had a meeting my dad couldn't go to so I took her, and while see was listening to the meeting I was with some of my friends while they were watching a movie in the teachers lounge and out of no where I hear a voice "oh you guys are watching pitch perfect?" I didn't recognize his voice so I swung around and bam instant butterflies our eyes met and I turned back around. He told one of his friends to come with him and they left. I left the room too because people were leaving and as I left the room I saw him walking in my direction and he completely turned around and couldn't face me... He hasn't really been able to face me. Except for the time he wanted to "talk" and it turned out to be him wanting me to do all the talking so I left, but still why can't he face me? I don't really care anymore...I'm kind of over the break. I still get a little butterflies when I see him but nothing crazy, but I'm just curious as to why he's like this is all.
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 Sorry for the typo in the beginning it's "have taken a break"
flitzanu Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 So I havers ken a break from teaching the dance class at the high school to prevent seeing him, but today my sister had a meeting my dad couldn't go to so I took her, and while see was listening to the meeting I was with some of my friends while they were watching a movie in the teachers lounge and out of no where I hear a voice "oh you guys are watching pitch perfect?" I didn't recognize his voice so I swung around and bam instant butterflies our eyes met and I turned back around. He told one of his friends to come with him and they left. I left the room too because people were leaving and as I left the room I saw him walking in my direction and he completely turned around and couldn't face me... He hasn't really been able to face me. Except for the time he wanted to "talk" and it turned out to be him wanting me to do all the talking so I left, but still why can't he face me? I don't really care anymore...I'm kind of over the break. I still get a little butterflies when I see him but nothing crazy, but I'm just curious as to why he's like this is all. i'd say you're misinterpreting "can't face you" for "doesn't want to face you".
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 i'd say you're misinterpreting "can't face you" for "doesn't want to face you". True. Either or. Regardless just curious as to why is all.
flitzanu Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 True. Either or. Regardless just curious as to why is all. based on what you're saying, i'm guessing he's the one that dumped you. if he dumped you, that means he no longer wanted you in his life...thus...he has no desire to see or be around you. there's nothing mysterious about that. 1
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 Yeah he did dump me, and I suppose you're right. I find it so callus though. To ignore someone you once shared so much with.
flitzanu Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Yeah he did dump me, and I suppose you're right. I find it so callus though. To ignore someone you once shared so much with. well, that's what breaking up is, unfortunately. 1
Minneloa Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Yeah he did dump me, and I suppose you're right. I find it so callus though. To ignore someone you once shared so much with. It is callous, and it hurts. My hope for you is that you can take today"s encounter and use it to fuel your ANGER, which is a big step in the grieving/healing process. Rather than dwell on the reasons behind his behavior, think about how his behavior has impacted you. What a jerk! But you survived it. Now get mad! 1
Author RiceaRoni Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 It is callous, and it hurts. My hope for you is that you can take today"s encounter and use it to fuel your ANGER, which is a big step in the grieving/healing process. Rather than dwell on the reasons behind his behavior, think about how his behavior has impacted you. What a jerk! But you survived it. Now get mad! Haha I have my moments where I do think back and get mad. Like really? We were together for almost 2 years and you treat me like this? But I used to get angry with him a lot in the RS so losing my temper so easily is something I have been trying to work on, so me getting angry..I'm trying to work on it lol
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