evondavis1 Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Quick recap for those who don't know my story. Together 7 years, 3 year old son, own a business together, house, dogs, etc....basically marriage without the papers. We broke up for many reasons. Then he married the next girl he met, 6 weeks later, and now they are expecting a baby (which he is not happy about, the baby I mean) So I have been getting several text messages from him lately, and I don't know what to think anymore. He tells me that I stole and ruined his dignity, that he can't trust anyone, even the mother of this child, that he would have stayed with me, but I kicked him out, that I chose for him to start a new life without me, that he is not happy now, that he was happy with his old life (with me and our son) and in the same sentence says that I ruined his life and he couldn't let lose when we were out because I was be annoyed, his new wife is a cool chick and they get along (no mention of love, or she is the one), etc. etc. I can't block his number because we have to do LC due to our son. I personally am not over this breakup, and was so depressed for months. I am feeling better, but still have this dull ache in my chest. The last message I got was that he would love his family back and loved his old life, but he started a new one. Are relationships that replaceable? I mean to go from one family to another? within months? is this normal?
flitzanu Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Quick recap for those who don't know my story. Together 7 years, 3 year old son, own a business together, house, dogs, etc....basically marriage without the papers. We broke up for many reasons. Then he married the next girl he met, 6 weeks later, and now they are expecting a baby (which he is not happy about, the baby I mean) So I have been getting several text messages from him lately, and I don't know what to think anymore. He tells me that I stole and ruined his dignity, that he can't trust anyone, even the mother of this child, that he would have stayed with me, but I kicked him out, that I chose for him to start a new life without me, that he is not happy now, that he was happy with his old life (with me and our son) and in the same sentence says that I ruined his life and he couldn't let lose when we were out because I was be annoyed, his new wife is a cool chick and they get along (no mention of love, or she is the one), etc. etc. I can't block his number because we have to do LC due to our son. I personally am not over this breakup, and was so depressed for months. I am feeling better, but still have this dull ache in my chest. The last message I got was that he would love his family back and loved his old life, but he started a new one. Are relationships that replaceable? I mean to go from one family to another? within months? is this normal? yep, very normal, happens every day. i'd suggest taking serious measures to avoid speaking with this person on any level other than about business and your child. his regret isn't your problem, he MADE his own decisions to do what he did. 2
TheBladeRunner Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 EvonDavis: welcome to my world.....you may as well accept it is all your fault....yeah, right! I got the same garbage, it was all my fault for everything, including her affairs (according to her). To answer the question "is it normal to go from family to family"...... apparently for some people it is. Those people are a part of a "special" kind of ultra-narcissistic pig family of humanity. 2
missjones4812 Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Apparently family is replaceable in some peoples eyes. My ex seems to think he will be happier waking up to, coming home to, and taking care of his new girlfriends daughter. Not being a father to his son and doing the things he is doing for another child with his own flesh and blood. People are sick and twisted... 2
Author evondavis1 Posted March 12, 2013 Author Posted March 12, 2013 Some people are sick and twisted. To give up on one family, to within weeks, start a new family blows my mind! The path and destruction left behind by these selfish people is completely insane! 1
missjones4812 Posted March 16, 2013 Posted March 16, 2013 Some people are sick and twisted. To give up on one family, to within weeks, start a new family blows my mind! The path and destruction left behind by these selfish people is completely insane! Yeah, for me not even weeks!! Walked out on us and moved in with them the exact same day!!! This "relationship" has absolutely no substance other than this ego boosting, superficial notion that they are happy. I cannot wait to see it blow up in his stupid face!!
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