Chris Girl Posted September 7, 2004 Posted September 7, 2004 Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a month and a half. But you see when I don't have my phone on he wants to trip but you see when he don't have his phone on I don't say a word cuz I think that I can trust him. Just like when he looks at other girls butts and I don't say nothing cuz most boys do that just like other guys look at my bootie. What I'm trying to say is that I believe that he is cheating on me what should I do.
morrigan Posted September 7, 2004 Posted September 7, 2004 It sounds like a double standard with the phone--he has the right to keep tabs on you, but you are expected to let him have his privacy and not question his activities. It's uncertain from your post whether or not he is cheating, but his possessiveness isn't a good indicator for the future. Tell him that you have as much right to privacy and to be trusted by him as he gets from you. If he doesn't want to change his attitude, you can be expected to deal with it throughout your whole relationship. To be honest, if I was already unhappy and worried about a guy's behavior a month and a half into dating him, I'd probably just cut my losses and ditch him. Good luck.
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