PhillyGuy86 Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 I saw her tonight to exchange a few things. Part of me misses her, so I asked if she wanted to get coffee or something. She said no, and said there was nothing left to say. It hurt to hear, and judging by her getting choked up, it hurt to say. I wondered if there was any sort of spark left, but it's apparent the relationship is dead. We were friends for a year and then dated for two, so its tough to readjust to not having her in my life. Still, as much as I miss her, its good to know for certain that there's no use pining over her. I know i'll be in pain for a while, but I know that eventually that pain will subside. From here on out I'm going strict NC and moving on with my life. Sorry for ranting, I just needed to vent.
SimonSerenade Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Aw man, the last goodbye's are always the worst, best thing you can do now is what your doing, not contacting her and just getting on with your life, just take some solace in the fact she was choked up and you had your closure. You seem like your keeping it together, that'll be good for you in the times to come, got a lot of respect for you dude.
thekarmacist Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 i'm with you. i think for me, i mourn the loss of what i'd hoped for.
flitzanu Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 I saw her tonight to exchange a few things. Part of me misses her, so I asked if she wanted to get coffee or something. She said no, and said there was nothing left to say. It hurt to hear, and judging by her getting choked up, it hurt to say. I wondered if there was any sort of spark left, but it's apparent the relationship is dead. We were friends for a year and then dated for two, so its tough to readjust to not having her in my life. Still, as much as I miss her, its good to know for certain that there's no use pining over her. I know i'll be in pain for a while, but I know that eventually that pain will subside. From here on out I'm going strict NC and moving on with my life. Sorry for ranting, I just needed to vent. good move dude. we all know how tough it is, and you'll be better off going NC and not reliving that pain over and over.
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