Echo000 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 I thought it would be cool to start a thread where people can openly complain/vent. That way you can get it all out and people can comment back and forth. A PLACE TO BE SELFISH
KatZee Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 LOL. I would have been all over this thread months ago. I came on to see if I could write something but I really wouldn't even know what to say or where to start as I've been so disconnected from him, and indifferent to it all for quite a while now. God this is a fantastic feeling. (He still sucks though.)
Skipper888 Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 yeah ill have a go.. Im sick of feeling like i have been the bad person in my relationship. She ended things with me because she has changed. It is true she has changed she has turned into a selfish person who only cares about her job and herself. She is not the caring loving person i fell in love with. I havent changed a bit im still the same person she fell in love with and im sick of feeling like i am too blame for breaking up. She ended things with me a i need to be able to deal with that instead of thinking i am to blame. She does need time to figure herself out and i may have been pushy in thinking everything was about me and my bad qualities when it wasnt. She needs to find herself again then maybe we can have a go again if there are still feelings there. But i do feel sorry for her. She cares about no one but herself, not even her family that loves her. She snaps at her little nephews and nieces when they just want her attention. I have learnt from my mistakes and become a better person for it. Yeah i use to cause little arguments when i would get upset when she would leave me out of going out and not inviting me to events. That was only because i felt like i was missing out on experiencing her life and i wanted to be in it as much as possible (LDR). But she used this as an excuse to get feelings for another person that she works with, itwasnt a sexual thing but felt like she was alone which is BS she just pushes away the people that care the most about her even her family. She has definitely changed. Her working environment is a toxic place and has changed her for the worse (or bought out her true colours). She isnt happy with her life and i feel sorry for her because she was happiest with me she just took our relationship for granted and left cause she felt our relationship had changed when it hadnt. She changed into this person who if she doesnt change back will end up unhappy, alone, with only her job and herself. Now i just need to keep thinking this and stop being suckered into msging her and trying to reconcile when its not me its her that needs to win my affection back and change who she has become.
cavalier99 Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Hmmmm. I guess i really don't have anything to say. Vented out. Its done and I'm done giving power to the past. Must move forward. Just want to feel 100 percent indifferent. Cav
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