singme2sleep Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 The expression goes "Sometimes you gotta be cruel to be kind" and we've all heard it before. I would rather my ex just be mean and say he never wants to see me again, that would help me to finally except its over and move on? Do you think it makes a difference if they are nice or cruel in the end? 1
CudLRoo Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Yeah, I also wish people were more direct. Games piss me off big time. Gah! 1
Author singme2sleep Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 They think they're sparing your feelings by saying nothing at all, just tell me the truth...I can handle it!!! Let me hate you so I can get on with my life. Sigh!
Addison312 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 I agree. Be mean and nasty! Oddly it would make you feel much better about the way th gs ended because you don't have to deal with that "a****le." 1
na49 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 When someone asks you if their dress makes them look fat, do you tell them? They're lying because they think their sparing your feelings. What they must not understand is no matter how you tell me you don't want to be with me anymore. It's going to hurt me just the same. but of course unless we were abusive then they don't hate us, so why not tell us to go f*ck ourselves? Well because it would make our lives much easier. Don't feed me this "I love you but I can't be with you" garbage either. When two people love each other (most of the time) they stay together and work out problems. This is why people get married and stay married. They don't leave and tell the person that they're leaving something like "Maybe we'll work in the future... just not right now" Don't get me started on "needing space" 2
Author singme2sleep Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 I agree! It's like they think if they're mean we will hate them and they don't want that because it will give them more guilt. Smh
drpepper1886 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 I asked my ex to tell me there wasn't another chance so I could move on and she got pissed that I would even ask and never answered the question.
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