janet50 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 (edited) My secret love of my life has died. Has anyone been through this and has anyone have any advice on how to cope with the complete and utter devastation of losing my soulmate. I saw him in the days before he died and am in complete shock as it was so totally unexpected. How do I get through this alone? Edited March 11, 2013 by janet50 grammer
CudLRoo Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Awwwww, that is HEARTBREAKING. I'd wanna die. Certainly puts things into perspective when you read stuff like this. I'm sorry for your loss, I'm sure it is almost too painful to bear for you. You have to make every attempt to stay strong, meet people, friends, family, vent on here, go on pills if need be, counselling, exercise, anything to distract. I know my words might not mean much but it's probably gonna be the only way. This is so sad.
adelia Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Im so sorry. You must be devastated. i think surrounding yourself with people who care about you is so important. Dont go through it alone. give yourself time to grieve its a process and it takes time. hugs
SimonSerenade Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Aw darling, I really wish I knew how to truly answer this because nothing anyone says right now will take this pain away, in March 2007 I lost my best friend who I was so deeply in love with, she felt the same but the time was just never right to be together, she died from an overdose, I was there through the whole thing, it was a bullet out of the blue what happened and right now the main thing you need to get through is the shock and as hard as it is accept what happened, cry yourself out, feel the pain, remember the good times and take some time to yourself. I still remember everything I went through and it took some time to get through the worst of it but I did, couldn't listen to certain songs though for a while, especially Babylon by David Gray, I think at the time I was quite young, so I didn't know much about this sort of stuff or how to deal with it, I'm 25 now and think much differently now than I did than back then, I hope your at an age in your life where you can find some peace in accepting this. It does get better, just know that much, I still see her from time to time in the corner of my eye, I know she's out there watching out for me just as I'm sure your guy is doing for you right now, I know your in shock, it's hard thinking of that image in your mind of the last time you saw that person, keep hold of those precious memories, that's your horse, grab a hold and ride that horse to safety, if you ever want to talk, feel free to pm me, I am really truly sorry for your loss.
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