veggirl Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 I don't get that type of personality at all. Why would you WANT to flirt with people you aren't interested in? I like flirting with my bf or when I'm single a guy I like, but dudes I'm not interested in? I am friendly/nice/whatever but def not flirty. I don't want the attention of a guy I'm not interested in. 2
AD1980 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 I don't get that type of personality at all. Why would you WANT to flirt with people you aren't interested in? I like flirting with my bf or when I'm single a guy I like, but dudes I'm not interested in? I am friendly/nice/whatever but def not flirty. I don't want the attention of a guy I'm not interested in. Ego boost/validation
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Then women get wrapped up in those obviously no good guys only to find out he was just playing with her. Our problem isn't with the opposite gender. It is with the tyranny that rains down upon all of us. We should unite with our fellow sisters and rise up against our oppressors. I would unite with you any day Oxy
phineas Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Finally! A thread all about me :love: I'm a total flirt. I do realise sometimes men think there's something more there than there is. It is just personality. Not intentional. Not leading on. Not teasing. Oh wait. Hold up. Bitter rejected dude thread alert. CODE RED! If you want something with a woman because she is attractive and friendly and approachable (what flirt doesn't have these qualities) an she doesn't want something with you THAT IS YOUR PROBLEM NOT HERS. This DOES NOT give you permission to dehumanize her and your bad attitude makes it even more likely you will get rejected again. So get it the hell together boys LOL! There is a difference between flirting & leading a man on. Flirting is fun. I've gotten women to flash me in bars & I didn't think just because they did that they wants to bang. I mean there are like a ton of other guys in the bar she showing them to also. OP stated these men think they are dating her, hence she is leading them on. I've had women I was supposedly "dating" come to my house, get in various states of undress, kiss, flirt sexually with me, let me cop a feel, ect then turn around & say "we are just friends" and "I wasn't leading you on" then even go as far as to deny we even kissed. Actually, that goes beyond the territory of leading someone on and into bat-chit crazy land. 1
hppr Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Girls who have 'flirty' personalities and tons of guys following them around know exactly what they are doing.
veggirl Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Ego boost/validation LOL honestly going by the "flirty" types of people I know in real life and who has answered that they are that type on this thread....you might be onto something.
Desensitized Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 I'm not leading girls on. It's my personality, I swear :rolls eyes: OTH, I am joking.
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Charisma only exists in its expression and only as a means to reel others in for exploitation. No. Charisma is basically your ability to inspire others. One can use it for good (providing value) or evil (exploitation). Anybody can be charismatic if they really want to though. 1
TheGuard13 Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 The same reason actors/actresses act. They need the validation from an audience. Uh...no. Maybe in some cases, but most people that can call themselves actors or actresses act because they enjoy acting, and they use it as an outlet for various types of energy. There's a powerful type of energy exchanged between the stage and the audience...but it isn't neccessarily validation. 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 I live with my boyfriend. I've done perfectly fine! So did I last year and look where I am now. Ah the ups and downs of life. Just sayin' your statement proves nothing.
pbjbear Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 I dont like overly flirty women or men. You know, people that flirt with anyone who is semiattractive. I find it fake and attention whorish. I read this article that said they found very flirtacious people to cheat more and to be close to cheating more often than people who arent flirtacious and I worried for the intelligence of the human population that there needs to be a research study done on it. 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 I will win you over Oxy. You are so cute when you are all negative and playing hard to get
sweetkiwi Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 ^^^ Let's agree to disagree. Anyway here's some more fire to the fuel. I AM A FLIRT!!!! Whoda thunk it. Even when I am not being a flirt my energy is just flirtatious, sensual. Basically I ooze sex . Its taken me a long time to try and understand that it's just my nature and nothing I do can mask it.
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 For me, I actually give men genuine compliments but that doesn't mean that I am interested in dating them. Like I would think nothing of complimenting someone on his shirt or hair. Or making subtly sexual jokes. Yet men take this as a huge sign of interest.
sweetkiwi Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Are dry heaves a normal reaction to your oozing? I was wondering since this isn't the first time this has happened with similar women. Maybe it is an allergy. Yes darling. We have the same allergy to eachother!!!! Would these women also not touch you with a seventy foot pole??
sweetkiwi Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 Yes dear. Except us flirts are everywhere. We're invading your life.
MrCastle Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 I flirt with every chick I come across regardless if I really have interest in them or not. I just have that kind of personality. 1
xxoo Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 I flirt with every chick I come across regardless if I really have interest in them or not. I just have that kind of personality. But I bet a woman KNOWS if she is dating you or not. Why can't men tell if they are dating a woman or not?
sweetkiwi Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 To me dating means more than one date. Date being dinner, movies, go-karts, etc with just the *two* of you. If I notice a man is trying to get me alone and I have no intentions of dating him I will not accept the date. Or the "casual" appointment. Dating is not a group of people doing things as friends and one person wanting more from another. That's completely different. And it's happened to me too. Confusing for both parties I think. 1
will1988 Posted March 12, 2013 Posted March 12, 2013 I flirt with every chick I come across regardless if I really have interest in them or not. I just have that kind of personality. Me too, but in a kind of quasi-Southern Gentleman-ly way.
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