irc333 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 There's a female in our social circle that pretty much had a lot of guys thinking that they were "dating" her, but she simply has a flirty personality. She has charisma that attracts men because of it, but some guys think that she isn't "leading guys on" but that's just a personality-type? True? Yes...no?
todreaminblue Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 There's a female in our social circle that pretty much had a lot of guys thinking that they were "dating" her, but she simply has a flirty personality. She has charisma that attracts men because of it, but some guys think that she isn't "leading guys on" but that's just a personality-type? True? Yes...no? true....yes it is possible to be mistaken about a girl because she is friendly or compassionate.......and guys tend to label what they cant have.,......deb 1
Author irc333 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 Yes of-course it is true... i am also with an flirty personality type girl... That being said, how often do you get asked out, and how often do you find yourself in an awkward position to reject them?
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 I have a flirty personality and very often guys think that I am more into them than I really am. I think I am just too intense for most people... I am trying to tone it down. 1
Author irc333 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Posted March 11, 2013 It is plain as day she is an attention whore and no one should allow themselves to be mislead by such an unscrupulous "personality" Well, people that know her....don't see her as such actually. Just very friendly, flirty, and fun.
phineas Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 There's a female in our social circle that pretty much had a lot of guys thinking that they were "dating" her, but she simply has a flirty personality. She has charisma that attracts men because of it, but some guys think that she isn't "leading guys on" but that's just a personality-type? True? Yes...no? If some guy thinks he's dating her then she did or said something to make him think that. I've not heard of very many guys other than the very mentally disturbed from slasher movies who think they are dating someone they really aren't on a whim. Women who do this have been called attention whore, tease, manipulator. I call them F'd in the head.
GoodOnPaper Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Women who do this have been called attention whore, tease, manipulator. That pretty much sums it up. @ OP: Yes, there are women with incredibly magnetic, flirty personalities. I dated one for a few months in college. Her M.O. was hooking and reeling in inexperienced nerdy science types. Extremely hard to resist when you're used to brush-offs and outright rejections all the time. But with her, everything was about being the center of attention all the time. 1
Archgirl Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Finally! A thread all about me :love: I'm a total flirt. I do realise sometimes men think there's something more there than there is. It is just personality. Not intentional. Not leading on. Not teasing. 2
aed Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Finally! A thread all about me :love: I'm a total flirt. I do realise sometimes men think there's something more there than there is. It is just personality. Not intentional. Not leading on. Not teasing. Yes it is! A flirty girl (where guys think they will date her) is like: Hey Jack, I really like you, you are hot etc maybe we should get to gether. When They have a date she is saying: Oh well I just ment to be friends, or is taking her mother along! Or is trying to make Jack kiss her, teasing and only so that she can reject Jack
EasyHeart Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 There's a big difference between a flirt and a tease. If you're making me think they are dating you when they're not, you've crossed over the tease line. Way over. 2
Djz05 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 That pretty much sums it up. @ OP: Yes, there are women with incredibly magnetic, flirty personalities. I dated one for a few months in college. Her M.O. was hooking and reeling in inexperienced nerdy science types. Extremely hard to resist when you're used to brush-offs and outright rejections all the time. But with her, everything was about being the center of attention all the time. This college girl i dated in had a similar MO, but with $$. We were together for over a year and I would always take her to all these fancy bars and clubs. Coming in I knew she was a party girl who changes boyfriends on a whim, but we got along as friends before I thought of asking her out and she was nice eye candy. We broke up when I told her when I met someone else who i really liked. When you like girls like these who are "flirty" or too "friendly", you just have to buckup and let your intentions known right away. Then things will be clear between you and her.
Djz05 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 "I will do things to your pussy you never thought possible with something as simple and ordinary as my dick." Too much clarity or not enough? Haha yup that will really clear things up. And this has worked for me (not the same line per se).
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Flirtatious people disclaimer: We are not responsible for any comments, remarks, facial gestures, expressive behavior and/or touching...including to/up to kissing and/or sex. We reserve the right to exercise a right to abolish/vanquish/exclude/modify any right that is herein stated for personal accommodation and to refute any logical analysis with a nonsensical explanation in which we feel justified in upholding...regardless of actual merit. Any miscalculations, misinterpretations, embarrassment, misleading behavior is entirely your fault/responsibility. We reserve the right not to change and will take no accountability/responsibility for our actions because we are attention whores. If you do not accept the terms/conditions of this agreement, then please step out of my office and have a nice day. Yours truly, Flirtatious person P.S. You're cute 4
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Flirtatious people disclaimer: We are not responsible for any comments, remarks, facial gestures, expressive behavior and/or touching...including to/up to kissing and/or sex. We reserve the right to exercise a right to abolish/vanquish/exclude/modify any right that is herein stated for personal accommodation and to refute any logical analysis with a nonsensical explanation in which we feel justified in upholding...regardless of actual merit. Any miscalculations, misinterpretations, embarrassment, misleading behavior is entirely your fault/responsibility. We reserve the right not to change and will take no accountability/responsibility for our actions because we are attention whores. If you do not accept the terms/conditions of this agreement, then please step out of my office and have a nice day. Yours truly, Flirtatious person P.S. You're cute I think I am gonna print this and hand it out to people
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 I like the term "attention whore" myself. I personally think that a little flirting can brighten everyone's day. 1
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 until they realize they meant none of it and the gray clouds come rolling in. Oxy, you know I lurve you
ltjg45 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 I personally think that a little flirting can brighten everyone's day. Then I wonder if she actually meant it or she's just playing around. Once again, it only makes it harder to figure out who is actually interested in me as, by then, I take all flirting as one and the same: Just a mere game played by the female and it is best to be ignored.
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Then I wonder if she actually meant it or she's just playing around. Once again, it only makes it harder to figure out who is actually interested in me as, by then, I take all flirting as one and the same: Just a mere game played by the female and it is best to be ignored. Let's be clear here. There are many men that are huge flirts too without wanting to take it further. Therefore, I take flirting as nothing unless there is clear interest expressed. Often I don't even realize I am doing it. I went to a bank with my bother recently and he told me later "geez did you have to flirt with that teller?" I was like WTF (completely unaware of it). Still, I don't flirt with men I find repulsive or creepy so.... 1
ltjg45 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Let's be clear here. There are many men that are huge flirts too without wanting to take it further. Therefore, I take flirting as nothing unless there is clear interest expressed. Often I don't even realize I am doing it. I went to a bank with my bother recently and he told me later "geez did you have to flirt with that teller?" I was like WTF (completely unaware of it). Still, I don't flirt with men I find repulsive or creepy so.... I'm completely incapable of flirting like Archgirl or you could (since I never even had the ability to pull that off without being attracted to her and I tend to make it more obvious as well if I wanted to. Just goes to show just how unfun I really am.) so I don't have to worry about getting signs from females that I don't want.
ThaWholigan Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 This all stems from the fact that some of you guys are rubbish at flirting . Don't cry, I used to be bad too - I'm still pretty sh*t at it in fact. Now that I know, I don't take every woman flirting seriously. 1
ltjg45 Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 This all stems from the fact that some of you guys are rubbish at flirting . Don't cry, I used to be bad too - I'm still pretty sh*t at it in fact. Now that I know, I don't take every woman flirting seriously. Really, I doubt most guys even care about flirting. I certainly don't. If they want a female, they would make it obviously known, not play these flirting games in the vain hopes that the female would figure it out. To us, it has to make logical sense for us to do it. If it doesn't, it gets discarded and forgotten. In fact, I would feel bad flirting to a female that I don't want. What am I, some sort of player? 1
Barnacle-Bob Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Finally! A thread all about me :love: I'm a total flirt. I do realise sometimes men think there's something more there than there is. It is just personality. Not intentional. Not leading on. Not teasing. Hmmmmm.....now I'm thinking I might need to cancel my flight to Australia.
Barnacle-Bob Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 Let's be clear here. There are many men that are huge flirts too without wanting to take it further. Therefore, I take flirting as nothing unless there is clear interest expressed. That's me. I'm terrible about it. But I figure, hey, a little validation never hurt anybody.
Imported Posted March 11, 2013 Posted March 11, 2013 She flirts and a bunch of different guys think they are dating her? Or did you mean they just think she likes them more than a friend?
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