The Old Fade Away?

[Pirate40]

Think I've just experienced the old fade away. After 10 years of marriage I'm recently separated. I had become friends with a girl at one of my companies offices that I work out of a couple days every other week. We would often go hang out for drinks and i really enjoyed her company but nothing more was involved. Since my separation she expressed her interest in me as more than just a friend. We agreed to kind of see how things played out since I'm going through a divorce.

 

While I was in town this past week we went out three straight nights. On the second night when we went back to her place I decided to go ahead and make a move and kiss her. We made out for probably 30 minutes with her saying I was a better kisser than she had even expected and was really impressed with how I just took control out of the blue and did that. When I left for the night to return to my hotel she invited me to stay over at her place the next night, Friday which is when I was scheduled to go home so I said I would love to. On the way back to my hotel I got a text from her stating "I really like u :)". The next morning at work she stated how everyone was saying she seemed happier than normal. I went to her place after work on Friday and everything seemed cool. We kissed a little bit, not as intense of a session as the night before but no biggie. Her back was bothering her so she took a pain pill and said she was going to go to bed and I could sleep on the couch. I didn't think too much of it. The next morning when it was time for me to leave she seemed distant. We had a brief kiss and I told her I really like her and wanted to see where this goes. Her response was very hesitant and she just replied"we will see". I could tell something didn't feel the same but I just brushed it off as me looking for something when it was nothing.

 

Well today I texted her. She replied back about 2hours later, very short & to the point. I sent another text and got another short reply. I would typically text her "goodnight gorgeous :)" and she would text back "goodnight handsome:)". Tonight she only texted back "goodnight"

 

I have a feeling she has just done the fade away. What's really puzzling is I have no idea what happened between Friday night/Saturday morning that changed things after the way Thursday night went. And I have been very conscious during this whole thing not to discuss my ex or what's going on with our divorce proceedings so its not because of me burdening her with that. I must say I'm a bit sad & hurt because things were going so good. I'm just really puzzled what could change so quickly.

[Dragonfruit]

Well that sucks, Pirate. Sorry to hear it. I can't think of any reason, either, from your post. It sounds like there was no "incident" of any kind but she just suddenly switched off. It is a puzzle.

Edited March 11, 2013 by Dragonfruit